Vent

I agree with both of the guys above you don't need that kind of stress it sounds very toxic. You will say it won't happen again but someone they manipulate you to falling for the trap again. It's best if you cut clean it will be better for both of you.

If he truly is obsessive and is highly emotional, volatile, and can get violent, learn what your rights are lawfully and legally. Learn if this warrants a restraining order. Not that you have need for one now, but just in case.

Soooo... He assaulted you, yelled at you, stalked you, puts fear into you AND seems to only want sex by guilting you with " But,I love you". Yeah, avoid, avoid, avoid. As VerucAssault said, if you have to, a restraining order may be what you need.

@candystarmagic Going off of what yass and Veru said, if you see your ex hanging around looking for you, don't waste time in taking it seriously and seeking legal help. That's the kind of guy who can murder someone