No such thing as an "alpha wolf", just saying. lol Dating is the trial period and it's ok to go in not knowing exactly what you want. Some want to work towards marriage and some just want to figure out if that's even what they want. I always went in with the thought of "Figure things out as the come.". However, I can definitely respect starting with the end goal in mind. For me, I just feel like that puts to much pressure on both parties rather than letting things happen naturally. I have two kids and one divorce under my belt, so what do I know? lol I could definitely give more input, but I'm lazy.lol