No such thing as an "alpha wolf", just saying. lol Dating is the trial period and it's ok to go in not knowing exactly what you want. Some want to work towards marriage and some just want to figure out if that's even what they want. I always went in with the thought of "Figure things out as the come.". However, I can definitely respect starting with the end goal in mind. For me, I just feel like that puts to much pressure on both parties rather than letting things happen naturally. I have two kids and one divorce under my belt, so what do I know? lol I could definitely give more input, but I'm lazy.lol

Man... It's been FOREVER since I went to a con...almost twenty years... Damn I'm getting old.lol The best time I had was when I cosplayed. You think you're introverted? Ha! Join the club.lol However, it's a different experience when you're getting stopped every five seconds for a picture(I was a troll shaman from WOW. Bald cap, tusks, teal body paint 'n all.) The bad part when cosplaying is you don't truly get to just blend in and enjoy, but then I do believe that's the point. Even had a construction worker stop his work to comment and ask what's going on.lol Otakon 2008, when it was held in the Baltimore inner harbor and had about 30,000 people.