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neeto @neet_one When you're a NEET you've got a lot of time on your hands. That and I think I added a little to it every now and then, bit by bit you know?

Veru @verucassault It does help with toxic family members though that think they are entitled to anything from you. I have only spoke with my evil grandmother twice since I was made aware she shit talks me behind my back unprovoked, for no reason other than her psychosis and need to feed on drama. I'm a happier person for it. (The bad mouthing is just a fraction of why I consider her evil.) I have a cousin, she's prob 15 years younger than me. I started seeing her being treated the same way. Had a talk with her. Glad I did.

lei @amarantha We all have different needs and wants in order to heal/grow/mature. We are different people who have different background/experiences/beliefs/culture/etc. To some this advice may be toxic, but to some this advice brings peace of mind/healing/contentment/happiness. Lets not judge or dictate how other people should be healing/growing/maturing. Because again, it all differs to everyone, and there’s no universal/step by step process for this that should strictly be followed. For me, this advice helped me a lot, and still helps me a lot, posting this in my public thread does not mean Im forcing this to anyone…So to other people, just do whatever helps you. Dont let people guilt trip you for doing what helps you. You are not obliged to stay in a room filled with bad people. If you wanna leave those bad people/experiences behind, you may do so. If you wanna face em directly and co-exist with those people/experiences, you may also do it if thats what you are choosing/if thats what you believe in/if thats what helps you grow. The world is hard enough already/has been hard to some, so whether someone chooses to do this or that, least we can do is support, or maybe just leave them be, so long as they are happy and not hurting anyone. It is not our job to tell others they are not healing/growing/maturing for choosing a path different from ours.