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Jan 06, 24 at 6:56pm
Chocopyro @chocopyro
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Chocopyro @chocopyro
That more or less echoes what I would say to someone coming on to strong. Part of our problem as millennials and gen Z peeps is we were never told how human mating dynamics work, so we used fiction as our teacher instead.
For those who are interested, according to evolutionary psychology, we are between chimps and bonobos. Here's the modern way to approach it. (And its more or less exactly what Yuuzora was saying).
You start by getting to know em. Screen for red flags (Commitment issues, narcissistic or psychopathic tendencies, self awareness), and make sure they fit your ideal match. Make friends, not babies. For aces and dems, this can take months to years. We NEED that emotional connection to form sexual attraction much later down the road.
When you are comfortable moving forward, start signaling your intent.
1: show that you're open.
2: show that you're interested.
(Honestly, its best to make your intentions clear earlier than later, just don't pressure them for an answer.)
Take a step back and let them decide for themselves what to do with that info. They may need to bounce the ball back a few times before they decide. If they withdraw, don't chase them.
If they say no, least you have a friend. Don't be an ass about it, we know it hurts. If they leave their options open, the same applies.
If yes, you build up your relationship, making sure it's actually a good fit for both parties. The diving into the bedsheets thing happens once both parties decide they are comfortable moving in that direction.
This runs contrary to how manipulative people do it, and the signs of a manipulator are strikingly similar to the 4 stages of possession. And... Crap I did it again... *Withdraws back into the shadows*
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Jan 03, 24 at 12:31pm
My resolution is to not keep a single resolution this year.
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Jan 03, 24 at 9:06am
I feel that way about a lot of old Nintendo games. The thing is, if I didn't have a ridiculous backlog of current games, this is what I would be playing.
https://media1.tenor.com/m/uJ0zztZcRFgAAAAC/friday-the13th-jason-voorhees.gif
I never accomplished shit playing Friday the 13th, but I have played it a hundred times.
https://media1.tenor.com/m/ryqRI7TUxW0AAAAC/dancing-jason-vorhees.gif
Trog is stupid but fun.
https://tcrf.net/images/0/09/Trog_NES_title.png
I have never heard Game Grumps trash a game like Mickey Mouse-capades, but it was one of my favorites as well.
https://youtu.be/u-LfKbCR0MI?si=ok006Tkts5FwWgwA
Remember Duck Tales? Woooo-ooooo! And it had a slappin soundtrack. Transylvania theme and Moon theme are the best.
https://youtu.be/2UuHesrJROw?si=JfuxQGIBMNYlyBCn
https://youtu.be/KF32DRg9opA?si=5AWk0Ey9EsbXN7Ut
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Hi all! I'm looking to meet new weeb friends in 2024 to chill and game with on discord. Message me if you wanna chat, and see if we could become good friends! Discord:
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Jan 02, 24 at 2:55pm
That is the most offensive thing you've ever posted
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Jan 02, 24 at 1:07am
Pfft. Mine isn't the most exciting story, but I suppose it's still my story. Met my love on this site and got together 4 years ago, met up and visited once, went back, and now working towards moving in together one day. Or well she's been. I've been procrastinating the shit out of everything.
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Jan 01, 24 at 4:05pm
I know a Krul fan when I see one. I'm personally more of a Ferid guy myself. Anyways... Welcome and all that, good luck in making some great friends, and well... Enjoy your stay here at Maiotaku!
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Dec 30, 23 at 9:16pm
Then lemme tell you about how I burned or... ahem... "Melted" a Zane when I was a kid.












