The Cold Approah

:P I was being serious about all I said though. ....Although. Why are you even here in the Relationship Advice forums asking about cold approaches? Why do you need advice in this? -___-

I'm actually very good at this, mostly because I'm a troll and being a good troll requires you to think on your feet. That, and I won a few awards for speech and debate. Regardless, the problem is that while you can always get a good conversation going, it's very difficult to get it in the direction that you want to steer it to.

The way i do it, its never a cold approach. I always validate myself somehow usually through my looks or some talent. This makes whoever i want to talk to (be it guy or girl) more receptive to me. I can then keep it going to the point where i can say anything and they smile or laugh. Basically dont go for cold approaches unless you have no other option. But wait why are you asking this blazingbow? you have Haruu.

Ok, Sorry I should of made it straight with you. I was always curious on this before I met Haruu. I have done it many times guys and girls alike, but always shy away. I just recently figured out what this was, so it was why I wanted everyone opinion on it. Maybe I should of put it in the random section. But I felt a lot people like me(before I met haruu) and Tried the cold approach. They also said cold approach is a good way start to network. But I havent got to point if I have anywhere close to a network. Its something I have trouble in college -_-

It is something that one should really learn, if anything else, for networking purposes. In this world, no matter what career you get into, networking skills are crucial. As to cold approaching with the intent of a more romantic nature, it's kinda a fine line you have to walk between being both flirty, yet building on both the emotional and physical side of it. Like if you just try to find emotional connection, then yeah, you're gonna end up with a new friend. But if you go too far on the other side of that spectrum, you're going to come off as a creep. But I think cold approaching someone is a good thing to learn. If nothing else, than once you get the approach down, all other kinds of approaching seems soo much easier in comparison. One tip is that don't stress so much about your opening line. Most women will not remember what exactly you said to them first so there's no point in stressing about the perfect one liner openings

I think it's natural for me =/ I have these stupid eyebrows that are big so it makes me look more intimidating than someone who's really nice. But I can be cold because if you're not respecting me, I'll just cut you off.

Well I mean like the prospect of flirting with a warm approach, someone you have some connection to, sounds like a much easier prospect if doing so with a stranger is comfortable for you

I'm really good at this :D But I'm extremely outgoing. I can chat up anyone anywhere and leave with a new friend ^^ (i don't normally go into it for other purposes) Though I have done it for connections sake and also gotten guys to like me... lol anyways, I'm not exactly sure how one goes about it ^^" It just comes to me naturally. I'm really bubbly, though, so that might be why? Also, apparently it also depends on the aura you exude to others as to whether or not they will be receptive to you. I apparently send out an "cutesy innocent needs help and protection" vibe -.- No idea why... My sister gives off the, "i could kill you if I wanted to" vibe lmao