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The Cold Approah

blazingbow1
Who has done it and fail miserably?
amezuki
Sep 09, 13 at 12:56pm
You mean approaching someone random that you don't know and just trying to strike something up with them? Tried it a few times, failed miserably. I'm an introvert; it simply doesn't come naturally to me and it shows. It's hard enough just initiating conversations with random people online sometimes.
blazingbow1
yes thats correct, its absolutey horrible when I did it T_T, How does anyone do it?!
amezuki
Sep 09, 13 at 1:19pm
You have to either have the right personality type or work very hard at learning it and overcoming your basic nature. Unless it's important to you that you learn how to hit on random strangers, I suggest that your efforts might be better directed elsewhere. :)
blazingbow1
Your right, I should focus On what I now.
mroneill1000
well first its easy walk up and say hi im (name here)whats your name however i have gained only friends doing this
wallace614
Sep 10, 13 at 3:41am
It's rather easy but again it depends on your motives
haruu
Sep 10, 13 at 5:32am
I am a master at this. >:{D I don't do it all the time, but if I ever have to I can do it fine. Try practicing with store workers? Like when you go to a store pretend you need help and go find a stre worker and ask for help. Then when you're out and you actually want to ask a girl out, just pretend they're like a store worker. You could approach her actually and strike up the conversation by pretending you need help. Then as they're helping you start a conversation about anything. I don't know. I think that kind of cold approach is at least less creepy than going up to someone and being all like "HEEEYY BAAABBYY. You got dat booty. Can I get yo number?".. @___@
blazingbow1
AHAHA, I was taking you seriously and then I got to the end and I just lost it XD
haruu
Sep 10, 13 at 3:28pm
:P I was being serious about all I said though. ....Although. Why are you even here in the Relationship Advice forums asking about cold approaches? Why do you need advice in this? -___-
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