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@rabbithole Haha made you tell your story bitch. You right I'm still learning thought you was learning to. My bad. No skin off my back being the bad guy thought you needed one. I'm totally a piece of shit so if I can help someone not ruin there marriage I'm gonna try. Your still a dookyhole for cheating but I don't blame you. And, who uses the word dookeyhole anyway weirdo. Anyway 3 or 4 years of being treated like shit does that to a man. Don't give me the whole spill how you love her or you wouldn't be looking for some action. I guess you being held in place by the kids. And, residual love for her. As someone who cheated while having kids and married it was the worse mistake of my life I destroyed our family. But, if your really not happy it is what it is. You must be trying to find someone to end it over if you hate thots. Regardless none of my business you do you freaky man. You still come off as creepy in your profile don't you know you scaring the females away.

Damn... Here I'm the one who's historically, on here, been a judgy ... How was it? Dookie hole.lol Y'all are silly...lol You can't justify cheating, EVER. Not happy? Leave. The way I figure it is like this... What am I teaching my kids if I stay in a miserable relationship/marriage that has no chance? Your kids will model your behavior and that's the most important factor, even above your "feels". Don't have kids? Well, that makes it even easier to just end things and keep your dignity. Just my two cents.

the way I see it, it doesn't seem like you are looking for a serious relationship. I mean, sex and kinks are great and all, but what about the other 98% of the time? You also have to consider the huge amount of marriages that fail because they got married because the sex was good, but couldn't stand eachother 90% of the time. Now if you are just horny and want a casual relationship you just gotta find a way to make a lot of money and hit the gym every day because for a man that's pretty hard to achieve unless you are a Casanova or hot right out the box.

Gonna be blunt... It's a case of having no balls. If you gotta sneak to find your sub, you're doing it wrong.lol He's married... Planning on cheating, thinks being upfront about that is a plus(If you'd cheat on your WIFE, you'd cheat on anyone , like a self serving coward.), buuuuut he has reasons that make it ok because "Poor me and MY needs!!! Look how I've suffered so and DESERVE to be unfaithful!!! You wouldn't understand!!!". Ha... Gonna judge the ever loving shit outta that.lol Tries to put some undisclosed age out as some sort of "I've been through shit and understand more." kinda moral course.lol Cheating irks me to no end, for reasons I've personally been through... I've no mercy nor sympathy for those who want to justify it and bitch about what they've been through that makes it understandable. End rant...

Get em Yaasshat. Don't cheat unless you want ghosts hunting you if you even cared a little bit about your family. And, don't break your woman heart and tear your family apart. Just end it on good terms if you not happy. Last thing you want is the mother of your kids hating you that makes everything difficult. Your not really mature in love if you willing to cheat on your spouse I just gave you some face in my last comment cause atleast you went 3 to 4 years. That's better than me but it doesn't justify your cheating because you endured longer. That's on me for not coming back at you for your bullshit.