Who hates or loves being single.

Might I suggest some people here think about dating a psychologist? It would come with its own built in marriage counselor. As for myself, being single doesn't stop me from being a hit with the ladies! It's all about how we carry ourselves, hmhm. Meow purr purr!

Both have their ups and downs, being single means I have way more time for myself, I don't have to always please someone else, but on the other hand the big sad voice in my head will tell me mean things when I'm single.

No one loves being single. Anyone that says they LOVE being single is full of shit. But you should be COMFORTABLE being single. It keeps you grounded and rational. If you're not, you get more and more desperate as time passes. And the more desperate someone becomes, the more ignorant they are that the person engaging in conversations with them is NOT into them. *girl likes something a guy likes and says he's funny* Guy: "So what I'm hearing is you want my love, omg let's cuddle in my bed and Imma be with you foreverrrrrrrr" *girl* http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/chloe.gif Guy: "Bitch ghosted me for no reason!! Fuck women!"

@bob_loblaw That's the issue, some people get too excited. Some people just need to dial it back, take it easy and let things happen naturally.

@bob_loblaw Tbh I never get my hopes up until the girl starts going on about some deep sentimental shit she knows I want like doing stuff together. Had one mention wanting my children, another went on about how romantic I was with her, and I mention cuddling ngl but she mentions the fucking first. I'm just being the wholesome one. XD But yeah have not been ghosted before tho. Had getting to know someone half way in stop because they left the site but it was never me. It would be some random username I never heard of threatening them or just nonstop not taking no for an answer. I know in the past I was that way (persistent even when told no about relationships) with Mary but she personally messaged back and forth with me years later telling me to not apologize for anything and we all fuck up. And how I changed according to her standards. Hard to believe it's been here so many years here already making life long friends tbh. Thank you all for laughing with me and loving me. I love you all too. Just because I get a mental breakdown now and again just know its always deep seeded irl problems going on with my situation to those of you that know me. ❤️

As for the do I love single or taken....now that I have a clear head not having a breakdown...hmm..tbh both are fine. Just because I get lonely don't mean I am really alone. I got all my bros with me and my gal friends I chill with. I always want good relationships with those I have been with or talked intimately to as well so yes I still am friends with my ex and others. Eventually the right one will come up but like I have been told it will come to me when I'm not seeking. Nothing to sweat or worry about.

At least I have The Lord while I come to His Presence as much as necessary. Other than Him, I have online friends (mostly long-distance ones) and some local ones, but prefer more time alone. I'm not ready for marriage nor raising children. Most social norms are like, "If you are in your 40s, you are too late for romance!", while other people say that's BS when there exists people much older were able to get married and have happy, healthy children. Even my mother's grandparents were a 50-year old man married to a 25-year old full-blooded German from Cincinnati, OH. They had plenty of happy, healthy children. I must build my maturity (but keep and set aside my child self for our future people), study about important things for living, improve my social manners and get very rich enough to have children. Even one of my cousins said in Thanksgiving 2014, "You want to be rich? Don't have children!" But some say you don't have to be married to be happy. Some don't want children because it's like a lifelong chore, but some want them because it's worth it. Something good will happen one way or another.

The 40 thing only applies for women. Typically men dont want a woman past a certain age. Women think its ok to party in their early years and then rush last minute before their eggs dry up to settle down with a dude. Usually dudes in their 40's go for a younger more attractive you. Why get someone who is old and wants to have kids in less than a year when you can have kids with this 25 year old who is in better health and shape than you.