SnakeePoo

Hot take, but I want to say we live in a world where attracting a partner is like an rpg where you need the appropriate amount of stats. Primarily, three stats to be exact. Wealth: You must make a certain amount of money to become a provider to pay for your significant other’s wellbeing (food, electricity, gifts, etc.) Personality: This is mostly serving as the glue to keep a relationship alive in the long run. The more personality you have the more your significant other will want to be around you for life. No one wants a boring routine schedule wall personality. Looks: This needs to be sufficient enough to get through the door of attracting your potential partner. A lot of people will not give people who “let themselves go” a chance unless they get to know you online without exchanging pics after a certain period of time. Then they fall for your personality. (Example being me with my ex. She got to know me first talking then fell for my personality but I lacked the wealthy stats to keep them around). Unfortunately the internet has created this stigma where a lot of people seek maxed out stats and not build up their stats and the others together early on. The current dating climate is impossible for those of us who are deemed undesirable. No matter how good of a person you are, they will always find an excuse to leave making you feel like you are the bad person or they just ghost. That’s my rant and hot take. What’s y’all ms opinions on it? Do you agree or perhaps have a different take on things? Would love to hear and discuss.