Am I doing something wrong?

Yea i wonder the same thing what shit i do that so bad and horribly that make someone not want to give me a chance at all.

Shared interests, shared problems, life energy and right timing...Also shared life goals and values! Patience and understanding!

Well I don't use too many social sites other than Facebook and then these dating sites I mentioned but on FB I seem to be reasonably popular as far as shitposting is concerned (yeah it's not something to be proud of and a reason it's not mentioned anywhere on my dating profiles) I kind of have a thing for showing up to new places both online and off and everyone knowing who I am within a few weeks (took me a month into High School before all the faculty and majority of the student body knew my name lmao) The thing is I just don't meet a lot of prospective dates in my day to day life, even when I go out to places to play in MTG tournaments for example it's literally 95% dudes in their late 20s/early 30s which is why I've started using these dating sites. I also just don't know how to approach someone I might like in real life like at all whatsoever. Sometimes it just gets me to wondering where all that male privilege everyone talks about is, because it just feels like I get shafted no matter what I do

Let Rolf help you, glasses Ed boy. (Couldn't help it) From what I'm reading, you're expecting a bit much. Tone it down a bit. Don't bring shit like politics in the relationship. It won't go well usually. What you questioned about what could be the reason isn't entirely the problem but it perhaps may be your approach. Look at how you're approaching people.

As a girl the main problem I see on this site is.......guys trying to rush me to date them without having an interest in getting me as a friend first, which is like mandatory since I am wholly demisexual demiromantic. It's tiring having advances thrown at me all the time. I just want to have a relationship where it can spawn from a very grounded friendship, and constantly pelting me with "do you like me yet"s and heavily referencing me being with them hinders me from making the friendship I need as a prerequisite. T .T

It as shieksdee and ENKI EA said, many people are trying to rush into love, and are being too aggressive. There are time where you take initiative, but you must consider when a good time, and do you know the person that well before going in. The real question is: "Do you love somebody? Or are you in love with the idea of love?" Girls are human too, and they should be treated as you would like someone to treat you. I understand your dilemma, where you have little to no interactions with other females. My advice in your current situation is to continue chatting with others. If you find someone that you're interested in, throw a private message to chat. Take your time and build your relation. You can also attend more social events, like festivals. Of course you won't find someone out of nowhere, but it a good idea to try to take part in other things. This can help you find something that you may become interested in and will also grow your social pool.

All I have to say is don't just look on dating sites to find love because all that's going to do is cause you a pair of stress and problems along the way also give you a bit of depression with the fact that nobody is wanting to try to conversate with you on a personal level. If you're only looking for less than all I can say is going back page and I'm not trying to be disrespectful but I'm just tired of people trying to just hit it and quit it and then going on dating sites just to get that satisfaction and they can just go on these sites just so they can stop trying to make it seem like they did a million guys or females before you. But it depends on the area that you're in but anyway all I have to say is keep your head up and keep your nose clean and no whining or crying because you're not getting what you want because the best thing you can do is 2 be patient and wait for the opportunity to come your way That's Amore you hope and dream for something that might not happen then that is just that moment that you have lost that you probably will never gain again.