The 4th Ed-Boy

Probably a combination of: -Me simply not knowing how to meet new people irl, or when I do I have zero idea how to go beyond just small-talk and actually ask someone out without coming off as weird, or too strong, or misreading signals, or idek I have untreated ADHD which probably doesn't help this aspect lol -the fact that I enjoy crossdressing/crossplay and am open and honest about this to most people and I'm fairly certain it is a big turn-off for many women. -Choosing to save myself for marriage, and in turn expecting either the same from a significant other or at least a very low amount of previous partners and still being cool with a sexless relationship till marriage (I imagine this is the big one) -I am very particular about who I consider dating because my end-goal is marriage, life-long companionship, and starting a family and I cannot imagine not putting a lot of thought into choices like this At least I have the luxury of having my issues be mostly self-imposed I guess *shrugs*

Depends, when did you last consider this site to have had a normal userbase? I joined like 4 or 5 years ago I think and the site didn't seem any more active than it is now but then again I never really posted anyway so could just be me