Why are men only attracted to the bubbly and sweet personality?

not sure if guys want someone sweet and bubbly but i do think people generally want someone who is positive : ) i don't want to date someone who i need to support emotionally for them to function

Everyone has their preferences i guess, personally im more attracted to the goth type so its the complete opposite for me lol. But i mean if your dating a sweet and bubbly airhead i guess it gives you the impression that they are cute and dependent every guy wants to feel like the alfa so i guess that also helps that fact. But all depends on the girl/guy.

At this point, in our current generation, I think most men will be attracted to anyone who actually pays them attention without chewing them off badly! That's mostly what I've seen among my friendships!

I've never really found myself interested in the sweet and bubbly types. I usually relate with introverts because I'm one myself and I think it's much more easier to talk to someone who's not so outgoing compared to someone who is very extroverted. Of course, nothing wrong with someone who's positive. It's important to stay positive and it's a good trait to have. But you can't be positive all the time. Life has its share of problems. It's kind of like the weather. There are nice days, cloudy days, but then sometimes unexpectedly it will rain so you just have to find healthy ways to deal with that. I'd rather be with someone who I can have good communication with and both of us talk about hardships that are happening at that moment. Then again, it really depends on the person because everybody is different.

I have no damn clue? I actually have a relatively calm and cool personality if you really get to know me but I feel like that side of me does nothing for lots of guys (not all) particularly on this site