Pathetic

everyone has trauma. some people have brain damage and thats more and more a thing now. its because of a lot of things. it wakes you up early in life but i have a lot to improve in myself. mentally ill is just a lable. that is all i got to say about this thread

What part of posting a thread berating women who don't choose to take you seriously is respectable? What part of crying on an online forum that you're a virgin that's never been kissed because women friend zoned you is ok? Or making a fucking list of what you want your perfect chick to be while not posting A DAMN thing you can do with your lazy ass? If you're that pathetic then you don't deserve a woman or man to take you seriously. So be pathetic if that's your "rebellious" stage. I rather not. There's a time and place for that. Showing weakness & crying on a supposed DATING SITE IS NOT GOING TO WORK. "HEY LADIES!! I'M A VIRGIN WHO HATES BEING ONE. SOMEBODY GIVE ME ATTENTION PLEASE!! I'M A GOOD BOY I PROMISE!!" -

Besides you, no one gives a shit about your problems. You can't be that mental if you're posting all your baggage on here. Altho all your grammar errors and misspellings are noticed. If you can't even take the time to come correct then why should anyone else even address you? Because you're mental is not a reason. It's an excuse. You need to work on yourself? Well, that's the first step. Now go to the next step. And the next. And the next. It's not easy. It's work.

The only problem I have with your approach, kichgai, is, without knowing an individual, you're just shouting at a wall. Youd hope an ounce of wisdom seeps thru, but most of the time it won't. People get set in their ways, excuse or not. Sure, they might know the problem, but not the solution. Or, they might not even see the root cause and instead just continue to bleed out for all to see and continue to just look for a bandaid instead of getting stitches. Most people don't have the courage to change, change is a scary thing and telling them to change won't make it any easier. It's all about approach.

I mean I honestly feel the same way, the way a lot of guys act here really is pretty pathetic. But this type of abrasive approach at addressing that is pretty damn pointless precisely because of the reasons yaasshat listed above. You're really not going to accomplish much this way.

Well, I've seen you all try other options and fail. The only time I see people on this site actually get passionate about anything is when someone ruffles their feathers. Yeah, it's not the nicest way to get the point across. It still works. I have zero issues being the bad guy. It's why the girl you like wants me instead of you. If you're not reflecting and just wanna argue because I didn't say please then it's no wonder why you're depressed and alone. you're thin skinned. Try to man up. You've tried complaining to chicks, crying, teasing, stalking, whatever. It hasn't worked for you. Truth is like rain. It doesn't give a fuck who it falls on. But yeah, go ahead and be mad at how I'm saying stuff instead and miss the point. More chicks for me.