Confessions

A man can find another man handsome without being gay. Who else is going to give us compliments? Women? PAH Snake there are plenty of bodyweight exercises you can do at home. Eating right is like 80% anyways when you just want to lose weight. Otherwise what about gyms? Nobody will judge you there. In fact they are all pretty helpful in my experience.

My brother already is using our leftover funds for his gym membership but never takes me with him. He only ever wants to go with his friend. Which I can understand from when I did have irl friends.

It's rare, Anyu. I know you're one of the good ones. I did exaggerate for comedic effect. Snake just go with bodyweight stuff then! :)

Okcupid did a little study where they had men and women rate each other. Men generally trended almost perfectly with a bell curve. With most women being average to them and some being very attractive and some not so much. With the women though they rated over 80% of the men in this study as below average attractiveness. If you were to believe this study then men are far FAR more attracted to women(physically) than women are to men. Or at the very least women have higher standards in the looks department. https://static1.squarespace.com/static/59eebcd529f1875b3b6eacc0/t/5bfbb1704ae237e15d62d939/1543221633296/Why+online+dating+drives+men+crazy+men+and+women+comparison.png

It could also be that women just put more upkeep and effort into being attractive than men do on average. Keep in mind, female attraction is not skin deep alone. (It technically isn't with guys either, but sometimes I wonder. lol) Its tied to a lot of things. When they look at a guy, its not always just to see how cute they are, but also what their looks can tell them about that man. -Does he have cheeto crumbs sprinkled all over his unironed shirt? He's clearly a slob. -attraction. -This guy however smells of perfume, and clearly put a lot of effort and attention into his hair. +attraction. -Oh, but with the way others treat him means he isn't very well liked by his peers. And he keeps checking himself in the mirror. Must be a total narcissist. -attraction -But take a load of that guy. He's got a wedding ring, so clearly someone saw something in him. (Yes, this is why guys in relationships get hit on so often.) +attraction It's a quagmire of how context clues are put together, and their personal tastes or interpretations of those clues. So generally the more you put what you have to offer on display, the more likely women are to give you compliments. Least that's how I see it.