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Do you want to become an old man/woman, filled with regret, waiting to die alone?

stand_alone_complex
Some of us find love, get married, have kids. Some get married, have kids, get divorced. Some of us never find love, some of us struggle with finding partners. I never really dated in high school. I believe I've had one serious relationship. Love is fascinating to me, there's the old addage that when you're not looking, you'll find it or "it just happens". I don't want to get older and older and play this game forever. Do you ever feel like you're running out of time? Are some of us defective or is it just the way of the world? The law of averages, couples to singles?
blazingbow1
You have an interesting way to put it, but Yes I do feel rushed sometimes. Probably because I see lots of couple around me, wanting to join in. In the bandwagon I guess
stand_alone_complex
same here. sometimes the last thing you want comes in first, the first thing you want never comes.
clo555
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robscene
And here I thought this was going to have something to do with Inception
roukuro
Whoever told you to just wait for it and let it happen is a combination of stupid and inarticulate. Though the inarticulate part isnt so bad since not many people can put into words how it works. Dont ever listen to them. Just go for it and throw caution to the wind. "it just clicks", "i just knew", "it felt right" are all just shorthand that people use because they dont know how to say it otherwise, but what is it? As unromantic and counter to the traditional view of romance as people may think it is, all it means is to just have frequent fun conversations in which the two of you can relate easily. This is easily (as in theres no obstacles to learning but the process may still be hard)learn able for both sexes. Its just conversation skills. You arnt defective, circumstances around you just made you feel helpess. You can overcome it.
the_geeky_panda
Title reminded me a scene from Inception lol. Eitherway back when I was younger I had regrets of never having enough confidence to ask a girl out or kiss her at the right moment. Now I have no regrets because I take chances and see what comes from it.
teamalucardgirl
You used a line from Incetption awesome and yup at this point I doubt any one will ask me out
wallace614
Haha you take chances and slaps from girls But if there's no pain then there's no gain
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