BDSM not just about boiking

Ha! Sorry, my dude.lol Good for you, though and you're not wrong. We often get tied up in our emotions/ego. But, I'd have an incredibly hard time wishing the same for my ex and that may very well be a personal issue. Ego is a bitch.lol

Here's my point of view. In all my years I have fallen in love maybe 4 times. One day out of the blue Im watching porn and think to myself...these are way to many (real) videos and true stories, where are all these creeps at? And how do I find them lol Break it down about 50% of porn is someone making money (willingly) about 40% is those in sex trafficking rings...let's be honest if you see a video that has just a corner of a room super set up chances are they aren't there because they want to be. Now the last 10% is revenge porn and actual freaks that love that kind lifestyle. These are not actual percentages just numbers pulled out of my ass. Now on any website there are millions of videos each with a different person and different catagories. You judge by how much of a freak i am and blame the devil but there are hundred of thousands that are freaks in there own regard. I have gone to a few concerts in my time and let me tell you, one day me and my buddy went and there was this cute girl sat right in front of us and we clicked. It's a pattern that no matter where I go I click with someone. That concert had 2k ppl in it and I happen to click with one. That would mean if you left to New York or Japan or Texas there is a good chance you could meet someone. Plenty of fish in the sea right. Now factor in what you like...anime? Go to anime conventions, bar hoping go to bars. Most ppl have the small town mentality and don't realize there is an entire world out there. There is a stigma for sex and pleasure like oh thats the devils work but the reality is many are like me but because of ppl like you that don't understand we hide our kinks and end up with no one to talk to about it thats where our deep depression starts. If you rack up the numbers no matter how wild your kink is there is someone out there for you. If you think I'm just an outlier, there are stories from years ago on the news of a man of 7 years married after 2 kids comes out gay. His true love was another penis but he ended up getting an STD because of ppl that judged what he liked. Another story was of someone that left their marriage of 10 yrs to be in daipers. His love was to be treated as a baby and supposedly the 3 kids still visit. Nowadays it's everywhere, gay, lesbian, pan, tran. All definitions of expressing your likes to a complete stranger. So you mean to tell me you can call yourself a furry have a litter box for yourself in your living room but me wanting dominance, respect, and to be able to say good girl while I pet my completely naked girl on the head is too much for you that you have to bring the devils name into this...your the problem. See for yourself...website called fetlife and app called fet. As for my delema I appreciate both of you lovely assholes @ yaashat @willwork there just too much at stake and not enough avenues to search for that one person. I will try to find time to get a professional involved but again with my lack of time and her stubbornness i just don't see her becoming the women I crave and the one I originally fell in love with ever again. And I know divorce will be soo ugly but I have to be the strong one and get through it alone while I also get raked through the coals with nobody in my corner.

The pendulum is swinging back in society. Porn will dip eventually too. Finally girls are seeing OnlyFans destroying their chances for normal lives. It only took what, like 5 years to speed run their ability to be hired anywhere but strip clubs? Anonymity on the internet has been under attack since about 2010 when Zuck got in bed with the FBI. And with state laws passing more things to prevent kids from getting on porn sites, eventually the internet is going to be more like a phonebook. And with facial identification AI getting better and better.... its not going to just be searches on Google to see what comes up. They will be thorough. Also I dont know if people are judging you on the kinks so much as the wife and kids part.

I was married to one and dated at least two(Opposite sides since they weren't the ones going for a married person...I think....meh lol)! Lucky me...lol Don't worry,there's ALWAYS a logical reason, or at least they ALWAYS say there is. So, it's all good and it truly is just everyone else's issue since they don't understand. lol

Wouldn't doubt it, people be bored.

@verucassault That's why I think this guy has to be some sort of rage bait. What kind of dumbass would come in here, or anywhere and think anyone would approve of this? Not the kink part either, someone can be into shoving pineapples in their ass for all I care. That's their problem. But cheating of a wife with children for a side piece where it is basically admitted she will be a toy for now. Now we come to the fun part, why is he here? There are many other places he could go for that sort of thing and with a higher probability of success. Why does he not have a profile picture? As far as I'm concerned, I am just here to see what depraved dumbassery comes out of this guy next.

https://media1.tenor.com/m/dMyIkk0kOvAAAAAC/sponge-bob-bob.gif I wouldn't dwell on it too much, people are dumb and like to troll