How much does one past matter?
gunruk @gunruk
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How much does one past matter?
gunruk @gunruk
Would you date someone who's been to prison or charged with a crime? What's acceptable or not? I seek to get a glimpse of what my future may hold.
αlερh-2 @alephy
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αlερh-2 @alephy
I need that cookie back that you'll stole from me in third grade
gunruk @gunruk
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gunruk @gunruk
It's been relocated to a good place now. Would hate to break it's family up now.
yaasshat @yaasshat
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yaasshat @yaasshat
Been to prison? I'm curious about your story, now. Especially since prison is a bit different than jail.
Honestly, it depends on what the crime was and how they've improved since. Doing something wrong does not automatically make someone some sort of "untouchable". Now, if you were charged with any crime against kids, murder, rape, SA or the like, I'd have to say a big nope. But, I've got kids and sex crimes to me are particularly personal and heinous.
gunruk @gunruk
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gunruk @gunruk
3 year bid for manslaughter (which btw is terrible way of saying accidental death. They really should changed that title)
Xelbraig @gabriel_true
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Xelbraig @gabriel_true
Was it drunk driving or a work hazard related death?
Or was it the old Dick Cheney, "I thought he was a deer!"
gunruk @gunruk
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gunruk @gunruk
Closer to Dick Cheney. It was a series of unfortunate events to say the least.
joynyanham @joynyanham
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joynyanham @joynyanham
bar fight?
joynyanham @joynyanham
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joynyanham @joynyanham
Anyways only forgiveness you need is from God, humble yourself before the Lord, make your request, put in the work/effort and continuesly thank God after he has fixed it
Xelbraig @gabriel_true
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Xelbraig @gabriel_true
Alright there Count Olaf!
https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/snicket/images/5/54/OlafMovieJimCarrey.jpg
What would be best is to be clear with someone you're dating what exactly happened that day. If you were clearing a shotgun and it misfired when the other person walked by then one could understand that.
However if the death was more elaborate than that it could come across harder to accept. As in the ye old question, "Would it happen again under your supervision?"
Moreover the biggest answer another person needs to know is are you absolutely sure you understand why the death occurred due to negligence and are you prepared to actively make it your life goal to be more aware of your surroundings and teach others to do the same?
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