How do you SHOOT YOUR SHOT?

kagetane @kagetane started How do you SHOOT YOUR SHOT?

Mar 06, 20 at 5:33pm

It's always nerve racking to be the one to walk over and ask someone on a date or even to just hang out. Being in 2020, with men and women coming to almost understanding one another, who? When? And most importantly how should someone approach their crush? Of course here you DM someone in hopes to get a reply and you are "protected" by screen, but even then how do you start off a Convo?

lukahkings2 @lukahkings2 commented on How do you SHOOT YOUR SHOT?

lukahkings2 @lukahkings2

Mar 06, 20 at 5:48pm

Well I’d personally recommend getting to know them really well being a great friend first off second really really make an effort to comfort them just be around when they need ya most patience is a virtue nowadays that not many people have hang in there

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vinyl_retroflexed @vinyl_retroflexed

Mar 07, 20 at 12:56am

Guys/Girls: Wear sunglasses (maybe fancy shoes), it helps if your gonna get friends/mates. You'll feel less anxious, and look less anxious. Guys x Girls: If your a guy that acts autistic, dart your eyes everywhere, and mumble. It'll instantly make the girl hate you/pity you. Plus girls don't tend to usually hunt for men (not even in the friend department), if you stay around waiting as a guy your straight outta fucking luck buddy. Unless you have something incredibly unique about yourself to show off the world, and a good personality ain't one of them. You have to persist on bugging around eventually, by a miracle you can finally get to step one becoming friends. Girls x Guys: Don't worry about anything, ya boys be coming. Notes: This is what I learned in IRL/Articles. No BS, I'm not gonna fill anyone with lies or stupid fairy tales. Good luck everyone. Sorry for sounding negative, but that is facts for ya. Just roll that dice. Like lukahkings2 and I say, friendship is incredibly important first step.

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Gabriel @gabriel_true commented on How do you SHOOT YOUR SHOT?

Gabriel @gabriel_true

Mar 07, 20 at 5:13pm

Aleph's got a point. Eye contact is everything! Look upstairs not downstairs and always know when to equip a silencer on your mouth if you feel the dialogue coming forth like a spray of bullets haha! Most women don't mind being asked so long as you are clear about what you are asking. Just have the strength of character to take the rejection on the cheeks without becoming butthurt! No one is at fault if one or the other isn't interested. We are all human beings at the end of the day. We all have a life to live and appointments to keep. If you treat yourself with respect and don't doubt your ability to talk about the subjects that matter most to you then you'll have plenty of opportunities to succeed. Point being, steady your aim and wait until you can see the white of their eyes. When they get close enough to you that a point blank shot couldn't miss if you were blind then you will know victory!

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Dyadka Yar @dyadka_yar

Mar 07, 20 at 6:50pm

Most important thing is don't be afraid of rejection. It is bound to happen at some point. Some are afraid that they will screw up with somebody they like, well ask yourself this question. How many women/men have you liked over the course of your years? 5? 10? 20? You get rejected, there will be another that you will fancy. Yes, rejection stings, but it is a part of life.