Hello friend ,I'll be in your care
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Abandonment issues are something you have to struggle with yourself, best thing anyone can do is listen to your stories / memories and identify what exactly you’re dealing with, it can range from severe trust issues (I am struggling with that shit) or constant nagging anxiety that makes you unable to connect/become intimate with others, usually due to a deep rooted subconscious fear you’re not “good enough” since you e been left before. If ya wanna vent a bit I can try to give advice but the rest is up to you being able to stomach those feelings and face them head on when they kick in.
if you can give me advice on perseverance,not burning out that would help
Exactly, and if it happens their happiness jus happens to include loving u, then it's a definite plus ;)
Ookamilw, no that's legit a good wish! Whether or not she will love u back is completely up to u.