zerofucksgiven

From what I understand in life, people don’t generally give a fuck about anything. It’s because we’re selfish bastards. We only care about ourselves and our needs. You may pretend to be nice to others and all that, but it’s just feeding into your ego to make you think you’re a decent human being. Friends? Family? Relationships? It’s all a facade. In our childhood we may have held ideals and hope, but as you grow up, life smashes a fist into your life and sets you straight. It could be a friend or family member, but someone will make you realize the truth. It probably all stems from their own hate of the truth and it’s own revelation. Thus people can also take joy in crushing your misguided ideals. Anyhow the net is the worst place to talk about this shit because of trolls and haters. If you complain about life being shitty or show weakness, all that happens is that people will laugh and point fingers or attack you even worse. And that just provides more evidence to how shitty people truly are. No such thing as kind and nice people.

I agree with you 100% And I think you for being honest for that as I do believe that there are kind people but it's those people that are feeding off into aspirity and the ones that are the kind ones are the ones that get used the most. Seriously I grew up learning all that I needed from the fact that my dad wasn't there and the fact that my mom literally was the ammunition of me learning that nobody really gives a fuck. Like seriously I can't say a single thing about the fact that the world is seriously becoming a just pull of peoples that only one with they need thank you it helps them out then they will help you out but if you have nothing to give them in return then they'll literally let you survive on your own. This world is crazy like that where it all comes down to what they can gain from you or what they believe is true.

Not sure about any movement, But if you want my advice, Here it is. People are difficult. For every man I've talked to about his issues and succeeded in changing them, 10 more either tried and relapsed, or never truly tried at all by taking the first step. For every true friend you have, who would help you with things just as much as you would help them, there are flakes who will only see their own convenience. It's good to let out your frustrations in whatever ways you can, Be it ranting on social media, Running people over in a video game, or my personal favorite, imagine their face on my punching bag. Do whatever you can, to get rid of that frustration. That said. Don't stop putting your good foot forward. You can't go in helping someone and expecting them to do the same, because you'll only set yourself up for, as you very well know, disappointment. But you can help them because it is what's right, and you're better than that. And if they do turn out authentic, and noble, then you have a real friend on your hand. Something very hard to come by. I help my friends out all the time Daiki, being their therapist constantly. But I had to realize that, people will only change, Truly change when they are ready for it. You can give them all the answers, but they won't have the motivation to do it. But what you can do, is tell them how, and give them the benefit of the doubt to see it through, Most people won't listen to you the first time you say, or the second, or even the fifth. Because 90% of people aren't motivated enough until they feel desperate about it, Because it is rarely an easy feat to change something so integral that it's affecting them so much. You can't control other people. But you can try to help them, and that's what matters. That's what it means to be a leader. I'm not saying you need to do this for everyone, Nor should you do this for people who have repeatedly shunned you. But the people you care about, the family, and close friends, The one's you can't just give up on and know are good people, are the one's you shouldn't stop trying for. Giving everyone your best, until they do something that shows they don't deserve it again. But, that's just me. If you don't like how the world is, You're not going to change it by being just like everyone else. So if you hate that the world doesn't care, The first step is being someone that does.

this may sound harsh, but i believe when it comes to friend groups and people on social media, you get what you attract. iv never been around snakey drama hungry people in my life (except for some people who say their your friend and then act as though they dont know you when its convenient for them or outright hurt your feelings for fun) from what iv seen personally though, the anime community doesnt seem to have a plethora of these people, though theyr are always the few i dont know you so i cant say this is directed toward you, there are always outliers, this is just my personal view on that kind of situation

I'll say, care only about the people who truly cares for you. If some people don't take your advice, let them be, you've already done your part. When you are at your worst, not everyone will be there for you but at least at times like that you know who your real friends are. Focus on the people that care and would listen to you, fuck the rest.

personally, i don't expect anything back when i help people. when people say "thank you" i'm flustered and don't know what to say after i let out a very hushed "you're welcome"

Hot damn there's a lot of pessimism and cynicism in the replies of this post. @Neverland I absolutely agree that some people can be completely oblivious to how selfish they can be and how that they only help or are nice to people at times to feed their ego to tell themselves that their a good person, rather than out of actual concern for the person....that's to say, that also doesn't mean that all acts of help and kindness are purely self-centered and ego driven, or that even those selfish people don't care at all for others needs at times. People aren't just black and white after all. Absolutely there are friends, family, and relationships you get into that will be abusive, narcissistic, and/or completely self-driven, but that doesn't make all of these social groups a facade or a lie, nor is it wrong to have ideals and hopes. Sure, life, people, and obstacles can smash you into pieces....and picking the pieces back up to keep trying isn't very encouraging for some, especially people who keep getting kicked while down. None of it is fucking easy, and chances are, you'll be soaking in despair, depression, hate, and plenty of other emotions....I completely understand people that grow to be cynical and pessimistic of society and people....places like the internet are filled with toxic people that shittalk others, usually care not for logic, and take great pleasure in feeling their better than you for having their own opinion and beliefs....but just giving up and hating people, saying everyone is selfish and naive won't change anything either. I agree with Leo...."if you hate that the world doesn't care, the first step is being someone that does". If you can't change the world, you gotta change yourself. Hoping people to be better (but not necessarily having expectations), finding people who are similar, genuine, or honest (even if their not perfect), and being the change you want in the world, rather than letting it outright consume you, all the while cursing at it. Is it acceptable to let the people that abused you stay on top by growing yourself to be cynical rather than striving to be better and not so empty as to fill up yourself with more pessimistic hate? All I can say is that there are nice and kind people. I've known people who've anonymously donated a few thousand dollars to the building of a church and others help people who need it without any hesitation purely just because they felt that it was the right thing to do. Even if some only show kindness as to feed their own ego....not everyone expects something in return or are only humble when it suits them. That's to say that, sometimes, expecting somethings in return isn't selfish....like say, getting paid in exchange for work, isn't selfish obviously....its self-respect. Regardless, it's not your responsibility to fix other people's problems and there's nothing wrong with saying no...and to those you do help...don't have any expectations from them...or you'll just keep digging yourself deeper and feel more betrayed, disappointed, and discourage yourself from reaching out to others...cause there are people out there who will appreciate such acts of kindness and pass it on. And that's the truth. Although...one shouldn't be helping people while EXPECTING people to return the help anyway. @Daiki Ultimately....have the self-esteem and self-respect to not expect something in return...as I said, you shouldn't be helping people, expecting something from them in return....of COURSE you'll feel betrayed and hate people if you do that...you can either respect and change yourself enough to not build up expectations of how people should act or treat you....or, keep going against the world, society, and people, hating others for not having the answers or results you were looking for due to a lack of self-esteem, and keep believing that you're somehow different and that everything is fucked up and keeps getting worse....you won't solve anything this way, as you'll keep giving and hurting yourself to those who don't treat you with respect that you should already be giving yourself, cause you and everyone else deserve to have a healthy self-esteem. Stop expecting people to return the help you give them. Don't make it your duty to help people and it ain't anyone's duty to reciprocate that help. If you want help, don't lean on people you have helped to return a favor. You shouldn't be helping people if you can't help yourself enough as to think its naive or petty when someone you helped doesn't let you lean on them. That's a problem of self-esteem, not society. Care more about yourself before caring about others. And that's not selfish like Neverland and other cynical posts here makes it out to be...that's just self-respect. Fill your own well first. Give only from your overflow....otherwise, you'll keep thinking your different from people and that society is uncaring and idiotic just because they don't know how to help or care to, when that's not their responsibility...resulting in taking what I wrote as more ignorant and petty rubbish. And I'm sorry for anyone that hates people and society for what's happened to them or others to make them lose hope or think its wrong in anyway for you or others to care enough to ask or give help to anyone.