Dealbreakers

I suppose the first thing that comes to my mind is the inability to be an adult. Like I get we're all into things, and I'm a child at heart when doing a lot of my hobbies, but being an adult is important.

Big parties and nightclubs are No for me. If you want to rave every night, we're not compatible. (I don't like crowds) I'll say it straight, I don't like fat. My general rule would be: if she's heavier than me, it's too much. I think it's not too exigent? And like Richaadokun said, child-adults. If she's not reliable, autonomous, mature, etc.. No no no. You can like childish stuff, but you need to be an adult when called for.

Ah yes, poly and drugs is definitely something I run away from. 1) When people change around their friends, so they're nice to me by themselves but when they're with other people they ignore me or treat me differently 2) Not keeping promises, I guess you can let some broken promises slide but when they break the same promise over and over again e.g. don't cheat again then that's a red flag 3) Hygiene! Very very important to me XD I'm not asking for anything too difficult...right? 4) Not having a backbone. Sometimes you just have to say no, but some people are just too soft to say no. 5) When someone is being overly corrective with how I say things. Sometimes when I talk I might say something like, I have ate, instead of I have eaten...pwease just let it slide and let me love you lol >_<

Nekorine. Oh yeah, The dreaded twoface, Yeah I definitely agree with that! It either shows a lack of Confidence or value, Shows they care more about their image rather than your feelings. Definitely, That goes with honesty stick, But breaking promises? Hell no. Not a fan of the Devious, well at least the negative kind XD. To be fair, Personally cheating is an instant Break up for me, so I'd say it's worse than just a red flag XD. You'd be surprised on how many people see showers as their own personal kryptonite. I personally don't mind that, I'm used to sticking up for friends and SO's, but I can understand why you'd be against. I'd be terrible for you then XD, I love to tease people way too much to let those slide. But all understandable deal breakers.

Bliss, I can understand that. While it doesn't make me Squeamish or is a dealbreaker, Any piercings off of the ears, is not attractive to me either.

@doppleman: About partying, I kind of agree. I like to party but I'm not the kind of person that has to go out every weekend, I'd rather stay home and be together.