Dealbreakers

Plenty of things could be red flags but I know 2 that I'm seeing currently with other people I know. 1) Let's call this obsessive annoying yandere? I have a friend who has broke up with his gf more than a year ago (and she found another bf) but she still acts like they're together and she sends him text messages on an hourly basis and sometime every 10 seconds in some occurrences. Really nice person but one major flaw right there, I wouldn't want to be in my friend's shoes that's for sure 2) Overconfidence to the point of arrogance. There's this girl, really nice person, funny and all but sometimes she can be really condescending and says she's better than most people and even use the word superior. I'm afraid to give my opinion or just say I like or dislike things just in case she wouldn't like it, completely cut off my interest to get closer to her

Well if they don't like your dog or your cat or anything that's fine but they'll have to bear with it because I sure won't get rid of my pet for someone else. Same if they don't like my friends. That's very judgmental and control freak-ish.