Too picky, or am I unlucky?

So, all things considered, maybe I'm just being picky. But to be honest, I gotta ask: Is the idea of me wanting a girl who is into anime, wants more than a one night stand, and is into video games AND who can deal with me having a shitty past... is that too much? Or am i just unlucky? I'm asking as a really broken hearted guy.

You're just unlucky. There's a shit ton of girls like that. You'll probably have to work on your approach and not focus too much on those details. There's more than that.

@CrossBones I dunno, maybe my approach IS too much. I go up to them, act like a gentleman, and try to be a nice guy... but I'm probably too slow or simple minded to actually get through. I don't know.

There's no guaranteed way to get a partner, they aren't some game that if you enter a code you'll get what you want. If something isn't working, try another approach. And as for "failure", that's just a moment to learn from. Don't be the "nice guy", just be yourself. When you "approach " someone, go in with the thought "maybe we can be friends" and don't pressure yourself to over think about romance potential.

You call that picky? xD just be yourself in time you’ll find someone, don’t be a ‘nice guy’ expecting something, people like that annoy me. Just be yourself and if that means you are soft and caring then be it, just don’t think you’re entitled to anything because you was nice. Hope most f that made sense literally just got up.

@Dazai Oh trust me, I'm not into the idea of pretending to be something I am not. I hate that crap. I am a nice guy... it just feels like when I'm the nice guy, I always get shoved aside for someone else. Sometimes, I wonder if being a jerk wouldn't just help... But then I realize that's probably my sadness drilling into my head over and over and hurting me.

If you are genuinely kind, nice and caring, meanwhile, have some communication skills and patience, those girls may be attracted to you.