Your a Virgin but he/she isnt.

How would you handle a situation where the person you fell in love with has slept with one or more other people in previous relationships before you while your still a virgin. Would you accept his/her sexual past? Or not?

I wouldn't be very comfortable with it at all really, but I realize it's an unavoidable reality these days where just about everyone sleeps around casually and considers it normal. I personally find it disgusting, but it'd be kinda crazy to expect otherwise. It's just one of those shitty facts of reality you have to accept.

It is not atypical and you should not dwell on it much. The older you get the fewer virgins there will be. Everyone has a past and it is natural to experiment and some will get carried away, it happens. It is best to worry about the person they are today and where they want to go and if you want them in your life.

Does it really make a difference? If you two have sex, it will be the first time the both of you have sex with eachother. So what if they've had sex? What you really need to be concerned about is if they're clean and that's it. I don't get the aversion to those who have done things in there past. All you need to worry about is how they are with you. What about your past? Some don't want to be with a person who has no sexual experience. Is that fair or mature? I certainly don't think so. If you're uncomfortable with another's past, do yourself a favor and don't ask.

Maybe I am getting older ... but its not as big of a issue as you think... I was a virgin into my early 20s till I met my first GF... As long as the lights go dark/dim and you know kinda what your doing things should go alright... Just be honest with yourself & your partner ... have honest expectation

At my age, dating a virgin really isn't an option. Sure, dating a virgin would be nice, but so would riding a unicorn over the rainbow.

Last time I met a girl over the age of 20 who claimed to be a virgin they turned out to be a man just trolling people here.