A Message to all the guys on MaiOtaku.

And for me two things about it bother me... Is it because she's from somewhere that's not Japan or Korea?? Or is it that she needs to live in the US? So it's either her ethnicity, where she's from, or you can't get to know her before and just assume she'd like to date a fool like you? Either way it reminds me of when you take a dog to the dog park and all the dogs gather around to sniff it's butt.

There was this one comment I read awhile back that basically stated You are really pretty I just wish you were japanese...... yeah that stuff is just wrong. I hate it when a person is overlooked completely by their race or body instead of looking at the personality.

It was a weak moment in my life but now I have seen the light so I should change but in all honesty that's why I stop frequenting MO before

Haha, yeah, when I first joined I was SWARMED by guys, many of whom were creepy. Not all though, I met my boyfriend because he posted on my page :P anyways, once I changed my status to "Taken" it still didn't change much. It was only when I started posting pictures with him and me and of him that they stopped lol I've literally have had people try to "take" me from him.... wtf? also had people not think that it was serious so they still had a chance -.- I actually had one guy apologize to me for that and wish my boyfriend the best lol but he wasn't a creeper.

I greet a lot of people, sometimes Men and woman I'm like one of those automatic messages that you get in your inbox when you sign up for an email :3 But I do see your point, however, something like how people were acting in this thread: http://maiotaku.com/mytopics/565/mytopics/12301 ...could also lead people to think otherwise of men

Yep I agree I always give people like that a chance though you never know if they could be telling the truth still I think its funny that it was swarmed so quickly.

Wow, Shin. You summarized it all pretty well. Its pretty much been this way ever since i joined too. I still remember a few threads from back then in which guys were just openly discussing their fetishes and whatnot. People can like what they like but this was done in excess which showed a blatant disregard for the fact that these girls are human. The only thing i could think was that these guys were shooting themselves in the foot. And then when i tried to tell them "hey the way you guys are speaking is not only a huge turn off but is scaring away girls i was labeled as a hater" The objectification that went on was ridiculous and its sad to see it still happening today (although i dont check as often as i do now so im going off of your word shin).

LMFAOOOO!!! hell yea someone finally someone speaks out the TRUTH!!! but then again your gonna expect this in any kind of social website, especially here because it is a "dating website", i see that crap all the time on facebook and especially more on intagram, its the funniest shit ever looking at how thirsty and desperate people are, but we are men, we cant help it, but it is annoying, because it is true what some other user said earlier that every single asian girl just gets swarmed, its soo funny especially that one other asian girl who literally got like 100 comments every single day on her page it was ridiculous.