Gabriel

Gabriel @gabriel_true I would welcome your company, Ms. Wei.

Rose Mommy ® @wei_ying Thank you lots, Gab ❤️

Gabriel @gabriel_true Moving along at a normal pace. I can understand flipping mattresses back when I had a box spring. I've been sleeping on memory foam for years now. So I don't have that issue. I do remember my ex wasn't a fan, though. She had back and shoulder pain, so she felt box was a better material.

Someone You used to know. @joemama711 What kinda mattress do you have now? I've tried memory foam and im a pretty hot sleeper so its usually too hot for me. I did try a hybrid mattress that felt good and even better with a adjustable base but they wanted to charge a lot for it lol. I've laid on that side of a mattress for years so its sagg8ng currently. Hopefully tonight ill get good sleep.

Gabriel @gabriel_true Currently memory foam. I hope you do get your snooze!

Someone You used to know. @joemama711 Appreciate it im about to sleep early! Hope you're not working too much!

Gabriel @gabriel_true It's just Capitalism. There is no plot. I just wanna make money! Do you want a booster pack? I'll give you 5% off...nah, scratch that actually, full price! Ya know what I'm doubling it! Still what it? I knew you'd say yes!

Someone You used to know. @joemama711 Modern day card collector struggles lmao

Gabriel @gabriel_true No doubt.

Gabriel @gabriel_true Ah, I see. To be perfectly honest I hadn't watched him in a minute (Nor am I subscribed, haha!) But he was the only virtual reporter I could think of.

secretagentboi @secretagentboi Perception, the word of the day

secretagentboi @secretagentboi My bad that's a reference to a game and I couldn't hold back

DEACTIVATED @swadian Hahaha don't apologize, anyone is free to contribute to the discussion

Gabriel @gabriel_true It has been said that how one judges another is by that same measure judged. It's agreeable to never ask something of someone without first being able to put that thing into practice. However, if one can do what has been asked and recognizes equally that within another then by no means would that expectation be unreasonable. I knew a man well who was never asked of for responsibilities. He aslo refused to apply his own sleeping talents for fear of failing. Last I was made aware that same man lays comatose with a bed he's never once made. Let us not be like that.

DEACTIVATED @swadian My approach to it it's more about... Hmmm how should I say it, I divide things between expectations and contracts. Expectations are whatever that you think about in your head though you also never convey to the other party, it's like a secret hope that they will do/behave/achieve something without them ever knowing about it, thus, it's toxic When your intentions and expectations are voiced then it becomes an agreement, why? Because both parties need to discuss it and reach a compromise on it, if they can't, then it means the communication failed and its still an expectation not bounded by agreeability

Gabriel @gabriel_true Ah, but one should not have to verbalize to another the need to wash dishes, clean house, or do their own laundry. That's an expectation no one needs to say aloud to another adult, but sadly for some, it becomes a necessity. Alternatively if someone shows up on another's doorstep with a plea for assistance and that individual has already offered great help previously, should there be no expectation for the one asking help to put forth their best effort in correcting their own situation rather than acting frustrated upon hearing the assiter's question of what plan that individual is willing to commit to?

DEACTIVATED @swadian I mean, most couples eventually reach agreements on who does what around the house when it comes to house chores, so it also falls in into the category of agreements. More often than not what truthfully happens is, one part will do a lot of house chores hoping the other will eventually keep up the pace but most likely won't, until the former explodes in a fit of rage. Just because something should ideally be in such a way doesn't means it will be in practice

Gabriel @gabriel_true Hahaha, fair enough!