Confessions

im the opposite fatalis xD i prefer taller and manlier xD the more the better xD i wanna hang like a monkey from dem arms!! i think one of the worst parts of breaking up and trying to understand what you did wrong xD but being in a relationship for 10 years its hard to recognize what went wrong and when

@Fatalis I'm kinda slim lol, I used to workout but now I don't. I can eat a lot of sweets at least, of course I try not to because even skinny people can get diabetes :P. Hahaha, why does no one believe you :P? Hmmm... You make a good point :/...

My relationships are more like little sparks. I'm lucky if they last even a month. I suppose I'm like that because I'm the "man" of the relationship as most would put it. xD

Aunt Ron.. Aun Tron... meh... I just hate "feel good" sayings that try to make the world seem so helping, easy, cotton candy clouds and unicorn fart filled. Sure, time is both an ally and an enemy, but without you, it's not even a concept. But, I suppose its nice to hear "feel good" things from time to time.

@Lamby I'm not really sure why but it might just be that they feel like their problems are their own problems as well as their insecurities. If they're trying to figure something out or how they feel then some people just believe that it's their business and it should only be yours if they decide to let you know even if it involves the balance of your relationship together being the outcome. Sometimes they just believe that because of their own problems that justifies being able to keep it secret until they decide it's okay for you to know. That's just a guess and my guess is as good as yours. I know one of the worst feelings is a relationship going south and no one telling you what you did wrong. Even worse if they don't tell you and they act like an ass about you trying to figure it out for peace of mind.

I guess they don't believe me cause 160 lbs sounds too heavy for what I look like? I weigh 150 - 155 right now at 5'7-8".

i understand that kiddo, but for me it was not sharing anything, just acting like everything was ok, never addressing the issues so i was blind to everything cant fix what you dont know, right?

i think your weight sounds healthy for your height fatalis, my moms around that height and weight aswell and shes thin if you ask me xD