i want to know what you guys do to get over somebedy?

@wallace614: lol. time works wonders, as does hobbies. or you can just surround yourself with friends that you know will help keep you in good spirits. not to dump your problems on them or anything, but just to keep yourself occupied until you don't feel quite so down.

Well it's hard man When you start thinking of the what ifs

Hello again Wallace. The answer is different for everybody. General tip is not thinking about or exposing yourself to anything that reminds you of that person AND what could have been. So yeah dont think about "what if." Doing so also leads you to think that you aren't good enough which destroys your self esteem. Dont ever let the thought "if only i _____" come to your mind or "what would have happened if i____" Find anything you can to distract yourself from this and eventually you naturally wont think about it.

Spending time with family and friends, doing things you love to do, remove any reminders of that person from your life if possible, etc. Time is the biggest thing. It's just getting through the immediate there after which is the toughest, especially if it didn't end mutually.