Do you guys find it difficult to talk to girls?

Talking to girls has got to be one of the easiest things i've done. The problem for me however, is I ALWAYS get stuck in the extremely good best friend/brother zone. So i never make it to home base T-T. Please pray for the brotha in the friend zone xD.

i can talk to women just fine.... its keeping the conversation going and taking hints.... they just kinda bounce off me and i remain oblivious :)

I find it difficult to talk to women. Girls are a a lolicons dream. I know how to approach a woman but after the initial "Hi" I find myself twiddling my thumbs I used to be able to talk for hours on the phone and text consistently. This has faded with my age. I can start a conversation but normally I take it a male dominant trait route and speak of logic and philosophy. Talk of neutrino's and antimatter is not a womans idea of wooing her. Knowledge and intellect is something women find intimidating at times. Acting goofy and silly is a must. Picking the appropriate times to do so is the challenge. ALWAYS BE YOURSELF. Never lie to gain the attention of someone. This will ultimately lead to heart ache. When talking to a woman I normally pickup up on if I will be put in the friend zone or not. Friendzone is like an instant ban. What is worse is being with someone for a couple of years and them puting you in the friendzone after. It just isn't kosher. Some advice: Being sweet does not always work. Some women like aggressive and assertive men. This doesn't mean you can be a douche bag either. In summary, in the 21'st century a simple hi and an invite to a dance no longer wins women over as it did 100 years ago. Which is why I am like a lost puppy now. I have old fashioned morals and values. This does not go over well in 2013.

Nope i don't find it hard at all. I stopped caring what people though of me a while ago, and what do you know that destroyed any anxiety i had.

Well, I really have a hard time keeping conversations with girls, I can talk perfectly with some and when that happens I think they're the right ones (but i've only met 1 like that is single :v) and then there's the girls with short replies that just leaves me not knowing on what to keep talking about(and killing the conversation), and the "mhmm" types D: I guess I just can't talk to shy girls, have you ever seen 2 walls socializing? it's something like that

Okay, what to say first... lol Actually, there are girls that like the old fashioned approach to being flirted with or don't mind either way (me being one lol). And there are girls that like a good intellectual conversation (also me being one lmao but I also have friends that like it as well). And girls that are intimidated by your knowledge probably aren't worth your time. It tends to work out better when you are on par with one another. And about being sweet or a bit aggressive, stay true to yourself. Some girls like one, some the other, but you don't want to be stuck in a relationship having to fake something you're not. And most of the time when girls reply with just really short answers, its because they aren't interested in you... ^^" Sorry! Occasionally it will be because they are shy, but not that often. Shy people tend to be more open on the internet and will write more than just "mhmm". And in person, you can tell if it is just them being shy or if they have no interest (well, at least I hope you've learned how to tell). And yes, confidence is always a plus, but their are girls that like it when the guy fumbles a bit when talking to them. They find it cute. If you find it hard to talk to girls, you just have to push yourself to talk to them. If you fumble a bit, it isn't the end of the world. If the girl isn't interested in you, you move onto the next one. Its not like the one that rejected you is the only one in the planet ;) Anyways, I hope this helped a bit