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Do you guys find it difficult to talk to girls?

juice
I personally never did but I got criticized for it today so I wanted to know some of the things that might make it hard.Maybe I'm just missing something O_o...Oh and happy fourth to all:D.
tornadomushroom
I don't think it is but I do find it a bit difficult when a girl hits on me. Whether it's a good thing or bad... I don't really ever have a good way of replying back after a surprise lulz.
the_geeky_panda
When I was younger yes, you gotta just get used to it and ignore that small voice saying you are going to screw up or make a fool of yourself. Now I am fine with it, I technically use my shyness as a cute advantage when talking to girls now.
juice
Alright is good to know it's not just me. Like girls are just people...
cecil
It can be semi-intimidating and can depend on the circumstances too. The best thing is to just relax and be yourself. I know it sounds kinda cliche and easier said than done, but it's surprisingly effective. :p
rowanstorer
It's not that difficult to talk to girls 1 on 1 because if they are flirting with you if you say something stupid they wont care much but if there are a group of girls it will make it a bit harder to talk to them because if you make a mistake and say something weird some of them will judge you so best thing to do to talk them 1 on 1 and be kind and nice and if you say something stupid it wont effect anything
the_geeky_panda
Its all about getting used to the situation really. When you talk to girls more and more you feel more confident and don't think about worrying anything.
darcvince
depends, if its hitting on a girl i'm a wreck, if its not hitting on the girl i'm fine, but I think that's due to me only ever really having long relationships, so I never really learnt though whole how to pickup girls thing XD because I had no need to. sucks now being single though feck knows what to say to pick a girl up in a bar XD. (didn't want to swear) XD
romanticchaos
I've hit on girls in a serious manner and in a not-so-serious manner, and I've also been hit on before. It's natural when you start to get interested in girls that you're going to become nervous and initiating conversation will be difficult sometimes. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my shy factor and ask girls out or flirt a bit. I've been shot down many times, but its all good because there are many woman out there.
robscene
Replace the word girls with humans then yeah, I do find it difficult
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