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Is love really for me?

mishi00
I graduated highschool a year ago and well I still have the feelings for some girl, like really I don't get it, I've been dating and well just... hanging with other girls and no matter how many times they say something like they love me, I can't seem to feel it myself, thou if I got the chance to see her again I know for a fact I would never let her go. Arg what the hell is my problem? I just got out of a year long relationship and I felt nothing from my ex. I mean you can insult me all you want but I really don't care, I just want advice.
mishi00
Jun 20, 13 at 4:13pm
And well I'm not saying that I won't find love other than her, It's just I think i've been with the wrong people for the longest time, I know that whoever I fall for will be happy, I swear it. I just wanna know what is wrong with me?
blazingbow1
uh I have no experince so feel free to ignore this, but maybe you just felt like something missing in the relationship vs with your relationship in the past. Theres nothing wrong with longing for an ex, it just a matter of experince. Will you do it over again is the question. p.s this post is outta totally random advice from an unreliable source
mishi00
Jun 20, 13 at 5:53pm
Yeah, you could be right. I dunno love is confusing.
haruu
Jun 20, 13 at 8:13pm
What's the rush? Since you're single now, just take your time and fall in love naturally. Someone is going to come along (unless you never leave your house and never talk to anyone) that you like and can understand, and it'll just happen. There's so many people out there. D: Word of advice from someone who's had the same thing happen: Don't date someone while you still have feelings for your ex. It gets too complicated and it just sucks. D:
mishi00
Jun 20, 13 at 8:22pm
Uh, The problem is.. she wasn't my ex, more of a huge crush, but I did that before I dated someone after recovering from my ex. But you're right, no rush time to live the single life and have fun :D.
haruu
Jun 20, 13 at 9:13pm
Gah, sorry. @____@ It's applied the same way though. >__< But hey, at least being in love adds some spice to life. c: Mhm, enjoy the single life. c: You can do ALL you want. Instead of worrying about if you look nice and where you'll go.. e__e
mishi00
Jun 20, 13 at 9:17pm
That's true :) I will, life is too short.
the_geeky_panda
Take your time, you are out of high school. Let things settle in and level itself before making a move.
nerdalous
It's hard to get over that. I know. Love is the worst thing ever it drives us insane, endowed us we fear, fills us with rage, and consumes us with hate. However it also fills us with the opposite of those emotions as well. Happiness, Hope, Compassion. I was in a relationship for over a year, we broke up for bullshit reasons, and then we went again a few months later but it didn't work. And August of 2012 we went out again then December we broke for more bullshit reasons. I hate that chick more then anyone else on the planet but at the same time I love her more than anyone else. If I had a girl friend other than her and she where to call me and tell me she wanted to get back to together I would drop the chick I was dating faster than the Speed of Light. So No there's nothing wrong with you. Hope this helps
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