Bad experences with love

I think there is someone for everyone, it's just the matter of waiting and finding. There are so many jerks out there, but then again they are nice people (God knows there are somewhere) Just don't give up, and be yourself. I myself am too a very weird, happy, hyper anime freak who love unicorns dolls and cats. There is someone who will love you for all your nerdness! (being a nerd is good! Embrace it :D) The person who you end up in the end will love you no matter what, for all your faults and weaknesses. Don't let the hard times get to you (give yourself time after breakups), Just wait and it will happen :) <3

Too bad I never had a bf. xD Err..I'm only 15 (almost 16) so I'm most likely not ready for one anyway...and also it may cause me more trouble...so maybe it is healthier for me not to have one. xD

I understand that feeling of loneliness but, first & foremost becauce I actually did do this & ended up worse off,random sex with a random person won't cure it. 'Nough said I won't argue the point as I know what I'm talking about. I felt like complete shit when my ex's dumped me. I thought there was something wrong with me & that I needed to change to fit the description of what the guys wanted. Nope, it doesn't work, you have to be yourself! If you don't you might end up miserable with the outcome. I woke up to this before I got myself into a hell hole situation that would consume & destroy me. I think he was hurt I broke up with him but it was absolutely the right thing for both of us. Keep your head up love will come knocking at your door when you least expect it! And another thing (I'm not attacking I'm just saying), everyone on this site isn't socially retarded, in my case how I socialize tends to run people away, but I still socialize with people face to face. It's hard but I try to tone it down to not scare anyone.

Just had one, I met this awesome furry/anime fan and we hit it off right away, We were getting on quite a serious level till yesterday. He broke my heart and is nao ignoring me~ Cest la vie~

Wow Karimoon! How do you socialize in that case that made me really curious for some reason! :) I have to agree with gothic and karimoon btw. There is no need to push yourself to find love, or what it sounds like, a boyfriend. There are plenty of guys to go around and I'm sure that you will be able to find that one guy. Don't give up!

lol why naked & singing with free cookies of course! XD roflmao joking I socialize what you would call normally, going to some parties/the movies/a freinds house/picnic/conventions, but behavior wise i'm 'out there', eccentric, passionate & perhaps a bit crazy while socializing so people tend to steer away & I in turn have become a tad shy, but just a tad. & that guy didn't seem to appreciate a nice girl I appreciate my lovers I'm very appreciative gal or guy. ^o^

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It can be very hard to get over a break-up. I feel ya's pain on here. I think it's especially hard when your boyfriend/girlfriend breaks up with you without telling you. Long story short, the past 2 ex's of mine both cheated on me left me and left great pain for a while.

Well I've had to brushes with love. My first serious bf of mine, we dated for a little over two years. He was good at the beginning, but it was rocky, he still loved his ex and yeah. Well things got better but a year and a half into our relationship we decided to have sex and that kinda was our downfall. He wanted all the time and I didn't, plus he didn't treat me to well. Then I started dating his best friend and thought things were going to be better. We ended up getting married on out 10 month anniversary. Things were great, then we hit our rough patch. And well I learned my lesson. I'm currently going through a divorce, we've only been married for a little over a year and a half. And he's already got a gf who he says he loves. The funny thing is he asked for me back as he was telling his gf he loved her and wanted to be with her. Like I said, learned my lesson and won't make that mistake again.

HELLO ppl as an ending note to this hole post, THIS site works! ScarecrowK and I found each other and life has been better for both of us so YES you can be anti-social and find love on a computer, and FYI or FAI-anyone hehe we are currently living together and married so in conclusion LOVE can always find away so... shut up miss vanityxaffair and good luck with your STDs or unplanned pregnancy XP