Why does it always happen?

So. Why are all the guys I meet, they end up being the same? I'm not trying to be one of those 'all guys suck' kinda girls, but it does get pretty annoying. It's like, I'll talk to a geek. Everything's good. Then they get to know me, the one who ends up trusting them and they become one of my closest people. But they never get together, just talk. And randomly they stop talking to me. So much for the whole 'I'll never leave. I like you for you' blah blah. They say they don't like me anymore and that it's my fault. When I tried to give them everything. But seriously, I just want a guy to game with and who actually wants to be with me. I can always use more friends, but when you say you like a girl, you might wanna show it. Or at least have the decency to tell her. Yes, I have problems. But I usually only open up to people who I trust. Get over it. Lolz rant over. :3 What's everyone's opinions on this? Think I'm outta line? When it happens every time? I've never had a real boyfriend so I dunno. >___>' I'm generally a very happy person~ :3

Stuff happens, lose of interests due to how often you talk or other things like they found someone else or very busy schedule. Things sometimes just goes south.

Everyone is Different in many ways yet the same in many ways, guys and girls cant seem to understand each other because they do not know how to. At least i would not think that every guy does that to you because i would think that would be weird, i would probably say i am like that sometimes in a way the girl/guy stops talking to me or just seem to lose interest in each other, there is always another possibility that they used you or just have to around to kill time until they find something else interesting to do. but then again everything i say could probably be a theory. May Apples bring sweet taste.

That's what I'm thinking; that I'm getting used. ._. I mean, I can understand losing in interest somehow, but when they say "I'll never leave. I will always be your friend." and this and that. >.> Like, they could at least let me know what happened rather than leaving me hanging, ya know? Meanwhile, I'm sitting there thinking I did something to make them mad at me. They also understand that everyone has flaws. They find one ridiculous flaw on me, they flip out. I find a flaw on them, it's alright, I get over it because it doesn't completely make them who they are. It doesn't change who they are to me if they smoke, though I don't like smoking. >_>'

@soni_chibi at least some people liked you the guys I end up liking always ask for advice for a relationship with a different girl. Even with girl's. I'm that one lonely person that always gives advice but isn't in a relationship :/

It depends on the individual but it seems more like a big communication issue happened. Anyway, I know that feeling since it has happened to me before. You cannot change the fact that this happened. One just has to move on and make sure that meaningful communication does not stop even though that is easier said than done.

Emma, I'm usually friendzoned by the people I have crushes on. XD Its only if people notice me online and they just like that I'm a geek. ._. They get to know and it's like nobody likes me for me.

I am there too Miss Soni. I tend to be the person that consoles the girl I like after the breakup with the Jerk guy. I am the shoulder to cry on. But as much as that hurts friendships are important too. Love is fickle.. and unrequited love is a B*tch. But As Chi From Chobits says "You'll find the one just for Me." well in this case you hehe. anyways I am sure most of us been there so just keep your head up. I find that when you are least likely looking for love is when BOOM! falls into your lap.