What's the reason you're single?

Cause my trust is not easily givin. I keep my self to myself until a man can prove his worth. I'm done with the usual lies and cheats and selfishness.

I'm uncomfortable in social situations and growing up I never really conversed or spent much time around girls so that made it worse. On top of that I've never really tried to put forth any effort into seriously trying/looking until as recently as 5ish years ago.

I'm single because *what effort I give I expect back / I try too hard too soon *I can be very insecure *I'm not terribly attractive to start with mainly the above but there might also be *I can be pretty rigid (or I might just be a straight up ass - internally debatable) *I don't let a whole lot go for long (if there's an issue I believe it should be worked out and not left to sit and get worse) *I've been told I can be on varying degrees of the needy side

@Bubbles It's a shame that you live across the pont, because here's an honest man for you ^^ I'm actually incapable of having sex with somebody I don't trust (mentally, physically everything is just fine) and I'm prbably the most monogamous gentleman you'll ever meet.

@Sanfi: lol we will have to see about that. A man can say a thousand words but have it not mean anything. :P I've learned my lesson.

@Bubbles That's a healthy attitude up to a cretain point, but I get it. You've probably already read somewhere about my ex who wanted to get 'serious' while still having sex with two guys and having two others on stand-by. Somehow I've never lost my trust in humanity, though, while honestly I have ever reason to.