What's the reason you're single?

Eveeyone i'd be interested in does what i do, and never leave the house hahah no all joking aaide Finding someone who acutally wants to knoq you is harder even with millions of people

https://33.media.tumblr.com/bea470152404f7a364e8b450fa7154f3/tumblr_nn1co4iobc1rhvcn2o1_500.gif Probably cause this has been my mindset lately...

Yeah dude. From someone not into guys at all. You're not ugly. Granted it seems most people have some aspect of their physical self they don't like (including myself). Your lack confidence right there though, is unattractive lol Work on that dude.

I hadn't posted my own reason on here and I may have touched on it briefly a long time ago but the friends I had from my starting M/O days are all deleted profiles or they have a life. So I guess I'm willing to say my reason. I am single because I have been self-loathing. I blamed myself for my best friend committing suicide. My ex left me for a minor (we were both over 21 at the time). The thing about relationships for me is that I just don't trust anyone anymore. Everyone lies - I guess. I am not afraid of commitment - I'm not a swinger - I just fell in love with someone who fell in lust. Yea - not everyone is like her but I've chocked it up to "Shit happens now move on". This doesn't define me but I did learn from it. I'm done with feeling like poop. If anyone has no confidence or just are afraid of being rejected - don't be. Tell yourself you're amazing and everything you want is worth it. You're alive and you have the capability to get what you want. Don't let it all go to waste because of some guilt or sadness or past rejections - fuck all that.