I've always wondered

This happened along time ago A guy asked me out and I said no, then a lil after I asked him out and he said no I think he does like me now but it's not like wev ever talked So what do u think happened? Y has he change his mind? This happened way back so I don't care about going out with him just I've always what happen

If he is like me, then when you first said no to him, he just accepted it. To keep that rejection from actually bothering him, he just moved on and rationalized that you didn't like him. That stuck with him, so then when you asked him out later, what went through his mind was something along the lines of "she wouldn't date me before, so why should I date her now?" Now remember, this is only insight from my own experience, so I can't be sure about him.

I am just it's been bugging me, always been a mystery..... But seems unanimous Icys right XD

It is exactly what he said. Guys loose interest after a while... If a girl says no then they take that rejection and try to move on. He might be over you and does not see you as nothing more than a friend but then again you guys didn't really talk so it would be that he has a new crush on somebody else and he rather be with that person than the person who rejected him before... But that's just my thoughts

Icy pretty much explained it in a nut shell. Sometimes you only get that one chance and its gone forever.