Who hates or loves being single.

Clint Eastwood was 60 when he had his eldest son of 3 childen. Now he's in his 90's with the youngest being a teenager.

Topic: Exists. Everyone: Love/hate. Me: I didn't know that was a choice. https://i.pinimg.com/474x/b8/e8/1b/b8e81bb275b8e008b34dea429c6683ed.jpg

@thesailingteacup It's better to say I don't know than to guess.

It ebbs and flows. There are weeks where the desire is strong and then there are weeks where I'm kinda glad I don't have to deal with that sort of thing. I suppose at the end of the day you want to find something you know is going to ultimately work with what you're looking for, and it's worth waiting for that instead of settling for something you know may not work in the long run just for a short term need to fill a hole.

As an INFJ-T, I need hangout friends, but at the same time, isolation for recharging, therapy and private reasons. Making it very difficult for me to find a lover. Even worse, my family get very picky about my decision-making. I'm even like the protagonist of the Netflix series "You", but my family don't see it in me and act like toxic neurotypicals. I don't like murdering, I like loving and caring, but have difficulties helping myself while my family toss things at me that think is best for me even when my instincts literally disagree enough to make me upset while my family don't care and get mad back at me. But not always.

I dunno about loving it, but I've been forced to accept it. Try as I might I just don't seem to mix well with other people. It's weird because by most accounts I should be fairly appealing, but on top of how hard it is to find half way decent people, none of them would ever stay interested for long. Maybe everyone is scum, maybe I am and I just don't realize it, maybe both, either way it's clear to me nothing will ever change.

I mostly hate it. Its very lonely and sometimes i get very depressed bcz of loneliness among other stuff but thats another story lol. Ive never been in a proper relationship tho but it seems i tend to get quite attatched so idk maybe im not cut out for relationship but still cant help but feel a longing for a partner i guess. Soo ye i hate it atm