Political rants

Most single moms have a baby daddy who's involved (Most-ish?). The one thing that should be said is this, that kid ain't your responsibility. Just another "my perspective" thing,my son will never call another man dad or another woman mom. Legit had this discussion ('cause ya need to clarify important things early on) not that long ago with the woman I'm currently with, my son WILL NOT be her responsibility EVER. The dynamics can be an issue for some to deal with from the perspective of "MY CHILD COMES FIRST.", too. In other words, it takes a certain kind of person want to be with someone who has a kid. #End rant

Yeah there is always that, those kids will always want to be involved with their other parent. For some people that actually hurts. My coworker has both her parents and they both got remarried. Her dad and stepdad both wanted to walk her down the aisle. Its just something that happens and to want to put yourself in that situation. Most people dont actually want to do that. Even worse when the person in question doesnt appreciate you and only sees it as you accept me and all of me instead you accepted me even with everything else i have.

Shit's complicated, but I wouldn't worry about the kid thing. Especially at your age, that's not the usual "to be expected" norm.

Ngl MGTOW is controversial af because both sides for and against have valid points but in the end won't you become like a womanizer? Or like a player?

Being honest I have been called a manipulator in the past a few times and 95% of the time they apologized taking it back. The other 5% would still be blocked. I always go off my emotions if anyone has not noticed that (cries randomly condemning society for my problems). That's just me being dumb overthinking about why I try so hard to get so far and in the end it didn't even matter. Foreal even I must say not all women are sluts and there are a few who will love you for you. I gotta not look at all and let them find me sort of thing. I treat people how I want to be treated, but nowadays I will take up for myself. So MGTOW is a group of men who are like me struggling to understand why they can't be happy thinking they found the easy road. That's my analysis at least. I will still do my best at my own life but let them find me when the time is right. I end up chasing shitty women everytime so this will be a good change.

As someone in their early 30s reading what you guys are saying I wanted to chime in. For those of you struggling with being single so long/ being rejected constantly/ things never going anywhere, etc. You have 2 ways you can look at your journey: You can feel the path is hard, suffering,, and like your getting hit in the gut all the time. Or you can look at it molding you and getting you stronger, wiser, more mature. The older you get nothing is going to change you will feel the same but now you will be older and the things of the past will either make you or break you. Basically stop putting time limits on not finding or failing at finding a significant other. Stop worrying if you trying but failed 30 or even 100 times because the amount of failures do not matter. Eventually you will succeed and it will feel and be worth it. All those failures and rejections will help you appreciate your partner. Until then dust yourself off and March forward. Don't let those people of the past break you because they don't have power over who you want to be in the end. Just my 2 cents

To quote what someone said once. "When you call out to god and he doesnt answer. Remember the teacher doesnt talk during the test" I think that can be applied to life in a way? Like when you arent given any breaks at all and things dont go your way. You are being tested, and you just gotta find a way to pass. Thing might not go your way now but that doesnt mean they wont forever. Guys in the movement like those two veru had issues with. It isnt so much that the message they had was bad, its the delivery. They are simply trying to get men out of this vulnerable state where they feed into these women that basically use them by trying to explain how to beat them at their own game. I believe the MGTOW movement isnt about toxicity its about self improvement. Focus on yourself and everything else will fall in place. You will find what it is you are looking for. The universe just hasnt lined up yet to put you at the center.