Why are you single?

haven't found someone I am really interested in. (in real life/close enough to actually try striking up a conversation or let alone a date) most probably because I don't like going out and thus rarely am at places where other people that are potentially single are. 2nd reason, I think, or at least from the experience so far I am not attractive to the other gender, neither visually nor while talking since I take things mostly at face value and this is not always the way the conversation is supposed to go, according to them...if you say something is impossible I go out and profe (with logical arguments) that it is possible.... yes I know but I can't help it but do this.

Looks like you know your issues @rtae86. Believe me, it ain't your looks.lol Often times we know the issues, but we're to afraid to change ourselves for the better and we get stuck in a rut. All I can say is this, don't continue in your rut, for yourself. There's not a certain type of person you have to be, you just have to be you, the best you. Be happy with yourself first before you even want another to be happy with you. Looks are the first thing a person sees, but just as if not more important is how you carry yourself. Have you seen most couples? Most people aren't lookers.lol So, what else do you think it can be? Food for thought.

I can’t trust girls/women anymore it hurt too much being betrayed and now I can’t take them seriously anymore. And can you really love someone if you don’t trust or take them seriously ?