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Can't Get Over an Ex?

wolfterra
Sorry, but I need to know what helps you get over someone you really had cared for?
josapswanzi
Time man, it will be okay! Just don't go doing anything stupid that you will regret!
proudbeast
Not listening to the radio. The damn thing is full of break up songs lol. Worst ones always come up whenever you're driving home on one of those nights. Fix that with your own tunes.
cecil
Oct 29, 12 at 1:34pm
Best thing to do for starters is to cut all contact and remove specific reminders of them around you like pictures. Not saying to unfriend them on facebook or anything (unless it was a really back breakup), but put away any pictures and unsubscribe from their updates for awhile. Next thing to do is try to spend a lot of time with your friends. Do the things you enjoy doing. No one is saying it's easy, but it's for the best in the long run. Obviously it will be good if you can still be friends in the long term, but spending some time apart with little or no contact will do yourself good until you can better come to terms with why the relationship ended, especially if you weren't the one who ended it.
ronined
Oct 29, 12 at 5:52pm
I second on not listening to the radio. It can be a huge downer at times.
toutaku
lol at least you got a few answers in truth, time my friend. it is the only thing, even after years i still have memories of a previous love, time is the only friend for this. good luck and try not to worry, you are the center of your universe and would do well to remember that. meaning, just live and it could shock you how fast time flies when you just live! hope this helps.
momoichi
Oct 30, 12 at 7:57pm
well this site helped for me XD wih ppl to talk to helps not think about them, unlike when ur puppy dies finding someone else is generally what it takes to get over them. though i guess that depends with who broke up with who
lyson
Nov 01, 12 at 10:46pm
Here is what helped me move on from my ex, and this is the best advice I can give you. Get out there, and meet other women.
ryuseven_0
Lyaon you sir I correct. But it doesn't matter if you meet new people or not. Just get out there and do stuff. Get your mind of things. Keep your chin up and have some fun. Don't go over board and do things you will regret though. I agree with that.
kitsunerena
I'm still having trouble getting over my ex, but I'm trying to do other stuff to distract me from being in a rut. I try talking with others, going outside to do stuff, hobbies and homework, and just focusing on school, friends, and family right now.
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