Just got out of a bad relationship

i just got out of a bad relationship that lasted two almost three years. We were going to get married and everything. He was always big about looks. He left me cause "He couldn't be with a fat girl." How do I have self confidence in my self after that. Also how do you trust someone anyone ever again. Any advice.

You pick yourself up and be the happy demented child...in other words, refuse to be anything but happy, it works, belive me it works x.x

If he couldn't see you for your personality and inner worth/beauty or why he loved you in the first place rather than changing his mind when you physically changed, he's an idiot and not worth your time. It pissed me off one time when a guy just wanted to date me because my hair is "blonde" (I consider it brownish) rather than for who I was.

god same happened to me e_e, he was always looking around, always lying, cheated on me. felt so ugly. but ur deff not fat XD and ur pretty :D the best way to feel better is to move on. look for another man, one who loves u for u and trust me, hes out there. just gotta keep an eye out and putting urelf out there like this is the first step good luck!!

You really do not look that bad, I don't see why the ex-bf was complaining. I know I've put on some weight since I got into college but I don't get told off by people or lose friends and such because of that. Any motivation to lose weight is my own drive. Hope things go well in your search for someone new, and don't let this get you down. ^^

If dat son of a bitch cant like u for ur personality and look below the surface then he doesnt deserve u. I think u look perfectly fine, ur not fat at all. I have been where u r right now except instead of fat it was ugly (well actually im still there)If he wanted u to change he was better of with a doll.

I think you should be proud that your relationship is over.That guy sounds liked an jerk to me.I believed that guys,should loved an girl for their personality rather than looks.Because how you looked on the outside shouldn't matter.Its the inside that counts.All and all its best to find someone who would love you no matter what.

I can understand that pain. I myself had a 4 year long relationship and we were even engaged but then things took a turn for the worst. No matter how hard I tried to fix things she just started treating me more and more like a stranger and I was quite distraught. She broke everything off and then moved on to be with her ex not a month later. Trust me at first it is really hard to pick yourself up but you must. Live will continue on and you must find out what you need and what is good for you. You don't have to do this alone though I am sure you have friends and loved ones that can be there for you and help you stand once again. To trust another person again will also take some time but I am sure you will find someone whom will take the time and have the patience to help you open your heart up again once more.