to the guys who got rejected

I dated a girl for almost a year it was like 10 months and for no reason at all she just changed and said she needed to go and find herself and didn't want to be with me anymore. 3 months later she calls me crying and wants to know if i can stop by her place to talk for a few. I do and she tells me that she had made a huge mistake and her life had been terrible after she left me and wanted me back. I took her back and things couldn't have been better. untill another year and a half later. We are living together and on new years at midnight I proposed and she said yes. Then 3 months later her friend who lived with us was causing trouble and i said to leave they couldn't stay anymore and My fiance told me that if i was going to be like that I knew where the door was and like that The engagement was off and I'm back to being single. now 2 years later we found out we were all constantly irritated because our downstairs neighbor was smoking meth and we were all getting affected by the exposure and now she lives 5 states away and Her and I talk and are best friends again knowing that we can talk openly and honestly with one another but may never be together again!

I never come back from rejection tbh. Every time is just another stab wound on the same scar where you tried to heal. The way I cope with it is i just attempt to distract myself with daily responsibilities, jobs (i have 2 but used to have 4 since the corona virus hit the US), get invested in my hobbies, friends, games, poetry, drawing but sometimes for people like me, maybe we don't have many friends who frequently want to see you or comfort you, or playing games alone make you feel lonelier, or perhaps you hit a writers block for poetry, or lose the ambition to do things for yourself. at that point, when everything feels bad, its okay to cry, but i always try to smile afterwards and say its okay so that the people around me are not worried about me. its another hurdle in life we have to overcome and it sucks, but the beauty in humanity is that we always hope. Dont ever lose it because even if you fail your journey, at least you made one person smile. You don't have to enjoy every little thing, but atleast make that idea one of them.

@the_noctor not every one is as strong as others, what really helps me is when i see messages from friends, people who WANT to see me or are excited to see me, thats the power behind smiling when you are broken, it brings people to you, and you eventually feel strong enough to get back up, maybe not as strong as the time before, but you still have some strength

I got rejected so many times that I got used to it. At first it stung a lot, over time it affected me less, I got rejected again less than two weeks ago and I feel as happy as always~ Of course, if she had agreed to work together some objectives so that we can give it a realistic shot at it I would be happier Those who don't risk, never win fellas

Once you find someone that accepts you, you will be thanking all those people who rejected you in your past. You just have to find someone that's worth persuing.

If you aren't living on the edge,then you're taking up too much space. Take risks. These breakups and all wont matter when you finally find your special someone