to the guys who got rejected

so you got rejected by the girl you like or maybe infatuated with, she told you were needy or maybe after the first meeting she realized you weren't the guy she was looking for, maybe ghosted or slow faded you after that or a blunt rejection so you don't keep chasing her. This happened to me once and after a year or so she came back and was wondering why the hell she remembered me and stuff when I thought she already forgot about me. Or maybe because we had a lot of mutual friends or something. were there any of you here that did come back after rejection? If so how long? How did you handle it?

The issue is people want what they can't have. There's a thrill of the hunt for both people. When you present yourself as being overly needy, it's game over. If you come on too strong like that, it makes it feel like work for the other person rather than fun. You've gotta move on or risk having an unhealthy infatuation for someone while missing out on others.

Dude, when i say they always come back peoples don't believe me lmao. I'd either reject as hard as i can so i can bokst my ego or if i was thinking anything serious with my partner i'd accept due to it'll be even more strong than before. Choice is urs

Me and the girl who rejected me on prom day are still good friends to this day. She’s just busy being a figurehead for Democratic politics these days.

I personally do not feel terrible about getting rejected. Don't get me wrong, it sucks. But the only thing that sucks is how they treat you after. I always hate it when they actively avoid me or act really weird. That hurts more than a simple rejection.

When it comes to rejection, it only sucks how they treat you afterwards. I HATE it when they act all weird and try to avoid me, especially when we bonded so much as friends. It makes me really sad. I much rather lose them as a potential partner than a friend.