Lowest Break Up

On ghosting People on this website ghost you mainly because of attachment style;they might fear a heart-to-heart conversation and don't feel like hurting ur feelings by directly telling u they want to break up so they decide to disappear from ur life silently. "It is likely that there are many other characteristics that predict ghosting, such as attachment style. Past research has shown that those who are insecure in their relationships tend to feel stronger negative emotions during conflict and experience more stress after a conflict.So those who are insecurely attached may be more likely to ghost as a way to avoid the upsetting experience and aftermath of conflict. It is also likely that those high in narcissism would be more prone to ghosting, as they tend to lack empathy for partners and see them as a means to an end" https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/close-encounters/201803/what-do-we-know-about-ghosting

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Indirect breakup methods—like dumping someone through email or text message—minimize confrontation and lessen the emotional difficulty for the person initiating the split. Ghosting is a more extreme type of indirect breakup, involving no confrontation at all. Such impersonal strategies are favored by those who fear commitment and shun intimacy.Indirect breakup methods, like ghosting, allow avoiders to maintain emotional distance from close others, especially when under stress.

Some years ago (6?) I met someone (ldr) and we dated for a year and we were set to meet up, she was coming to see me (she being the older one). One month before coming to CA, she made a stop in another state (I forget) to attend a con and see a friend. Didn't think much of it and waited, didn't hear anything for a month or two, turns out she cheated on me with her friend and had been living with him for that time period. Didn't find out from her, found out from him cause he made a public post about it. Shit fucking hurt bad at the time and left me with trust issues for a while Doesn't matter anymore that was the past, I'm over it and just wanted to share. I'm happy now