Communication

I really like this girl is in the same city as me as she is a hard worker and extremely nice. The only problem is when it comes to communication it's kind of not long at all where the conversations are short and she's mostly working so it's only on certain days we have. I really don't know what to do as I really do like her and I write poetry to her everyday to know that I'm still here I just feels like that's the only thing I can do.

Well, ask yourself this. Which is better? Seeing her for only 10 minutes at a time, or not seeing her at all? If you answered the first one, then keep at it. Sometimes, it can feel like it's going nowhere, but there are times when that silence between you may serve to strengthen the bond you are forming.

I know as I'm not trying to be impatient and I'm proud of her for having a job but people say that communication is key as I just want to know what I can do to show that I care about her as I want to be able to do more than I am and try to work my way up to be considered her boyfriend.....

well you two can communicate with little time, it just depends what you talk about is it "how was your day" stuff or something deep? do you feel like you could get honesty from her? on the job front, i think if you dated irl the job wouldnt be too much of a problem, but is it she "wont" make time for you or "cant" me and my bf talk even on his breaks at work despite being in different time zones, so i think its possible to make time if you really want to

It's like everyday I literally don't get many messages from her as it's like I have to hope that she replies back as most of the time I say good morning or how did you sleep and get no reply back as I even sent poetry to her on what I think about her and what I want from the relationship that I hope that me and her build..... When it comes to honesty I hope that she is honest with me because she told me that she was sick because of the rain on Friday but there was no rain going on Friday as it was slightly cold but it wasn't raining as she thought that I wasn't trusting her or believed her.....as I don't want anybody to feel like they are a liar or feel like they can't be trusted as I don't want her to feel like I don't trust her at all.... And ever since then I just been trying to talk to her and I even commented on the fact that I wish that me and her talked more but all I get is the fact that she saw my message..... Seriously I am not looking to get laid or anything like that that is all I'm looking for is like at least conversation and hoping to work my way up to a relationship and not feel like I am in another one of those relationships where the relationship never even started or even crossed her mind.....

Yeah we aren't Officially dating yet so that is understandable as I might of went over the edge with it since both of us have a lot in common and like the same things. We were even going to have a date but she ended up getting sick because of Friday.

Well, from how you've described your relationship w/ her. I assume she's not interested in you and if she is, she could just be playing you. I feel like you're getting too invested and will just get hurt in the end. A clear cut answer may be easier than all this "does she like me and want to date me" thinking. That kind of sounds like agony. You might just want to ask her straight out. Also, I know that may be difficult b/c you may want to keep your friendship w/ her and asking her this might break the friendship/connection. But in the long run, I think you're just gonna keep hurting yourself w/ all the doubts if you don't get a clear cut answer, especially since you want to be her boyfriend someday. Good luck holmes ^_~

Before we try to speculate... Have you brought these things up with her? I mean, you can say what ever you want here, but we're only getting your side. Just talk to her about wanting deeper conversations. Let her know that it's only because you'd like a deeper connection and you really do want to get to know her better. Better yet, get to the meat of it and ask her what she wants out of being with you? It sounds like text is getting stale and you need to either ramp it up or pack it up. Does she actually have romantic interests in you? I feel like it could be a case of falling for an idea rather than the person, but only you two can figure that out. Relationships can be tough, but even steel is pounded and folded in order to build it's strength.

I haven't read completely through the other posts by other users but also read through the majority of yours. It seems like you hadn't said anything about meeting up with her or anything that specified with interaction between you two other than mutual stuff. How did you two meet?