Privacy

Privacy pls. If bad breakup occurs now I have to worry about site passwords, credit card info, banking, phone, emails blah.

I like my privacy and alone time as well. Those people don't know what boundaries are meant for.Usually,their relationship end up failures.They feel insecure,so they are immature in relationships.Moreover,those people are probably clingy and paranoid. Compared with "stalking" their partners,having a deep conversation with their partners about their insecurities is wiser.

I prefer having what is that type of privacy to myself. You never know how things will play out and I'm not the type to ask for that sort of information either. I like having my space and I'm sure she does too, so there is no need to do that. Obviously to some (me included) it would feel like there wasn't any trust if they asked you for that information, and trust is a big issue for alot of people.

Got nothing to hide, but my wife doesn't look anyways (neither do I). "Things that would be found" She knows I like porn, I know she likes porn...hmmmm...I don't talk about our problems, with others. I literally have nothing I'd be uncomfortable with her seeing or knowing. However, if it was her going out of her way to snoop, like trying to hide the fact of looking into my stuff, well, thatd be a pretty big trust issue in my book. But, she already has access to all my stuff and I hers. Part of a successful relationship is trust and I trust her enough that though I have access to all her stuff, I will not look into it without letting her know and so far I've had absolutely no reason to, and I trust her to be the same way.

Well if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't ask for all of those things unless it was necessary because if your girlfriend or boyfriend is acting shady or they're not being the same way they he or she was when you guys first started dating then you have something to worry about. With me I would want to see their Facebook or phone but sadly most girls if they are caught cheating would try to erase any in town that they are doing so and that goes double for guys as some guys would just erase all files so he does not get caught. I feel that privacy is necessary but what good is privacy if honesty is not intact. You need honesty to have privacy. Respect for respect and loyalty for loyalty.

id give my SO my passwords and shit cause i have nothing to hide, and id expect them to do the same phone password would be mandatory (just incase i had to use it) but the other stuff isnt really needed unless i was paranoid >w> but then again if my trust was so thrown around why date them at all?