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Do you take responsibility for your breakups?

megitsune
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ilikegundams
i had 5 girlfriends all i dumped. 3 was all their faults but not going into details unless PM'ed about it. 1 was not seeing her from going to different high schools (however i dated her little sister 4 years later) and one was me not wanting to date her just use her as a rebound which yes i know its bad but it was a tough time. INCOMING JUDGING INBOUND BRACE FOR IMPACT
reinhardt76
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kakeguruixoxo
I definitely would take responsibility only if I was part of the reason why we ended it or it's part of my fault. I won't if that person is blaming me for everything, cause honestly it's annoying when they do that. And I am female! :)
zmilli
I only take blame and responsibility where i feel its due. If i feel like there was something i should and could have done differently then that signifies i was part of the issue. Most relationships and their endings usually doesnt fall on one person alone, but both parties in some shape or form. Don’t let some1 ever try to change who you are though.
momoichi
iv never been at fault, so no (jk) yeah, break ups are two way either you drift apart or you picked the wrong person no one is fully to blame
vezax
I would rather have a friendly breakup than playing the blame game.. it sucks to think bad about the person whom u once loved. (Assuming that cheating didnt happen amd brkup was coz relo didnt work out)
hakutaku
Partly.I should have dumped them first. It was a forced relationship in which both parties couldn't contribute to each other's growth<I was forced into it to some extent, cuz I'm too attractive in all sense lol. just joking.At that time, I was in a weak mental state..>.We don't even like each other. I was bewildered by my useless sympathy and the sense of responsibility, so I didn't take the initiative to end it...Sighs...I learnt my lessons. I'm cruel enough to hurt people's feelings now. I don't think I did anything wrong except that. ←_←I tried my best to know their emotional needs; however they even refused to trust me, not to mention opening up. To be loved, a person should love himself/herself first.
whispywoods
"I'm too attractive in all sense" Well, you seem to love yourself at least. http://a.nime.me/0113/4383/iris.png
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