"Why Are Fat People Ridiculed In Anime?"

If I'm being completely honest, there was a girl that liked me, and I never told her I would have easily gone out with her if she could have promised to lose weight. I liked her, but I didn't want to hurt her feelings if she wasn't okay with that. I never told her no outright, but I think she assumed it.

i think obesity is another one of those things people are trying to normalize even though its bad for you and disgusting

There will always be obese people no matter what and it's never going to be normalized just so you know the small amount of people trying to normalize it are just like social justice workers and it will never happen no matter how hard they try. And hey least I know how you SEE ME now thanks~! Guess I'm disgusting LMAO

-Shinu ; You should of just told her the truth. Actually to be honest you should of just told her 'I would go out with you if you promise to loose weight ' You could of easily been like the mere motivation of the girl to loose weight. Cause there is a reward for her at the end of it that is you so there would of been a possibility she would of done it. You can't like rule that out completely without giving it a chance and dont be afraid to hurt someone's feelings about how fat they are everyone is obese or fat knows they are they stare at themselves every moment they look in the mirror it would be impossible to not be aware your fat so being called it is the truth how can it hurt. It hurts when someone treats you less then a human being just for being fat or obese cause your still a human being just one with a lot of fat on your body but your still as much worth it as the next person. So maybe next time just be honest you never know maybe she likes you so much she's willing to motivate herself to loose it. Cause sometimes fat people doing it for themselves alone doesn't work with every fat person cause many suffer from self loathing. How can you help yourself if you don't even love yourself. So maybe consider that next time.

I'm not convinced I was wrong. Over the years she never lost any weight and gained a lot more. It could have been for reasons beyond motivation. She's gotten married and had a baby since then.

Everyone's opinions on what weight is considered fat. What is yall? Cuz I believe I need to lose weight, but haven't reached the super unhealthy part of it . some who are heavier than me believe they are not fat. Same with people who see them. Others believe you're fat if you go over 120 pounds. So what is the most common opinion that makes one too fat that they are given or thought of as bad? And don't give me some researched doctor point of view answer. I'm asking for personal opinions

Yeah I'm not super concerned about 180lbs. That's about what I'm at and I'm trying to muster the willpower to get it down. Weight isn't the clear issue since mass doesn't directly equate to health or weight. 300 lbs is clearly too much unless you're really tall. Then it's still up there but a bit more acceptable. Pretty much pudgy is generally acceptable. However health has to do with it too. If I were to try to describe how important weight is from an adthetic sense, I don't know if it's more or less important. I'm seriously concerned about lifestyle and how negatively it impacts their health.