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kaitomia
Feb 04, 18 at 1:22am
So i have a friend who gets mad at me if i dont text her everyday or even bother saying anything. But heres the catch, she says she doesn't see me in any romantic way or sexual way. Yet, she always wants to do sexual stuff or cuddles and kisses me randomly. So i wanna hear everyones opinion
jtibbs
Friends with benefits without the attachments? Or maybe denial about her feelings? Not sure what to make of it.
kaitomia
Feb 04, 18 at 1:28am
Right? I never agreed on fwb.
leo_ss
Feb 04, 18 at 1:29am
Well you got three possible outcomes. 1- She indeed does like you, And is to afraid to admit.(Don't hold your breath on this.) 2- She doesn't like you romantically, but enjoys having a physical relationship with you.(Friends with benefits) 3- Sexual and Physical activity is a normal thing she does with all friends, or a large percentage, because neither have anymore value to her in such a way. Odds are, She likes you. If you actually want something with her. Ask her out. Don't wait for her to lose interest to start trying. If she says no, Okay cool. Go back to being what you were. However, I'm going to warn you right now. You say she get's angry at you for not texting her. That's a red flag. Shows insecurity, and neediness. While people without relationship experience may find this okay. You'll learn, Everybody Needs Me time, Everybody Needs Friend and Family time, and The most likely people to cheat are the insecure ones. Not saying to not go for it if you like her. I'm just giving you the warning upfront.
burninghalo
Feb 04, 18 at 10:02am
You're being manipulated. Peace
rainx
Rain @rainx commented on Confused
Feb 04, 18 at 10:24am
At this juncture, you need to put a kabosh on the FWB/Cuddling unless she gets into a committed monogamous relationship with you assuming that is what you actually want. Frankly, many guys wouldn't turn down your situation with no-strings attached foreplay/sex, but it ultimately comes down to what you want. If she can't or is unwilling to commit, then it's a pretty clear case of playing head-games with you to string you along so she can keep her options open and/or mess around with multiple people and not feel guilty messing around while being tied down to one person.
yaasshat
Feb 04, 18 at 10:42am
Love it. Halo getting straight to the truth without all the lonely wet dream bull shit others are talking about. She's toxic, plain and simple. But, if that's what you like, enjoy. Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world And the seven seas, Everybody's looking for something. Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused. Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world And the seven seas Everybody's looking for something Hold your head up Keep your head up, movin' on Hold your head up, movin' on Keep your head up, movin' on Hold your head up Keep your head up, movin' on Hold your head up, movin' on Keep your head up, movin' on Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused. Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world And the seven seas Everybody's looking for something Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world And the seven seas Everybody's looking for something Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world And the seven seas Everybody's looking for something Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world And the seven seas Everybody's looking for something
jtibbs
Ohh, I love this song.
shinu
shinu @shinu commented on Confused
Feb 04, 18 at 10:52am
I put my odds on she has no romantic attachment to you. Don't give her any leeway with which to manipulate you, and perhaps she'll change her attitude and reassess her relationship with you.
megitsune
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Feb 05, 18 at 12:32am
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