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solid_snake95
Okay so this is a topic that came to my mind. How do you feel about someone you're interested in that lives with their parents or parent. I know some people have their reasons for these things and it could be many things like financial reasons, medical reasons and such. Is it a turn off to you if the person does still live with their folks anyways? What are your opinions on the matter? I'm just curious to know. Leave your opinions and thoughts down below.
hell_hound7
Giving my honest opinion inb4 feminists attack. I dont feel like a girl living with her parents is a big deal...its seen as normal. Almost like "oh she probably doesnt want to leave home cuz its comfortable for her" where as a guy living with his parents is seen as some no life who cant provide for himself and needs his mommy to take care of him. "How is he supposed to support a life with me if he cant support his own?" Kind of thing Honestly i dont really mind if a girl i like lives with her parents but i sure as hell made sure i dont live with mine XD
brendan_james
Based on how the sexes work, a girl living with her parents is a non issue. A guy living with his parents on the surface implies to women that there is some sort of hinderance in the provider aspect of said man. Its not a deal breaker for women but it is a minor red flag
solid_snake95
Okay so what if the parents live with the child then?
brendan_james
Honestly its probably a pretty big plus to a girl. Its you providing and showing love to family. That situation happened to me, and my girl at the time thought it was sweet. I ended up breaking up with that girl down the line in a pretty grizly fasion tho lol
solid_snake95
I see. Thank you for your input on that. Sorry to hear about your break up though.
umbraticalba
Tbh, I don't care. It' a plus if he lives alone cause then no annoying family members~ But still, eventually if you like each other enough plus the effort and time, ya can move in together if ya want. It's not like living with parents takes away your awesomeness. It really does take a whole bunch of money to live alone and live in a really decent neighborhood, so it's understandable.
hell_hound7
Parents living with the child isnt as bad as you living with them but its still kinda awkward cuz who wants to move in with someone elses parents living there, you know? Some people dont have a problem with either but imo the guy side always takes the hit the worst
jtibbs
Its a norm of the times. Most parents understand its cheaper to live with them than rent/own their own places. However, I believe that the person living with their parents should have an objective to move out on their own eventually.
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